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| spectastic | PostPosted: Tue Nov 10, 2015 9:54 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 08, 2014 4:14 am Posts: 20 | | I'm in my mid 20s, never really had good luck with girls, but finally starting to get it, just moved to a big city. didn't go out very much, but did meet a college freshmen at a party. she's pretty cool, and we're definitely hitting it off. I am also definitely more mature than her (I mean she's 18). We're going on a date this week. not looking for anything serious.
I got another girl off of tinder, who blatantly states that she's attracted to guys with my complexion, and we've been exchanging messages. I wouldn't have a relationship with her (she seems kind of weird and off..), but she suggested netflix and chill.. at my place.. and I've never even met her.. which to me is code for a 1 night stand, which is totally fine with me, so long as she's clean and everything..
so here's my question.. I never really dated in college, and don't know the game too well with young girls. am I opening a box of chocolates or a can of worms? I'm kind of unsure about tinder girl..
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| RockstarPUA | PostPosted: Tue Nov 10, 2015 10:07 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri May 17, 2013 10:24 pm Posts: 182 Location: UK | | I think youre worrying too much. Definitely go for the tinder girls ONS offer, thats a no brainer. But with the younger girl it shouldnt matter because you should be bringing her into your frame. For example you shouldnt try and act her age in an effort to be on her level. You should try and bring her up to yours. Young girls do appreciate being treated more maturely. Dont even pay attention to her age, just treat her like you would a woman your own age. She'll appreciate it. Doesnt mean dont be fun though. Just dont act like the usual frat boy she'd otherwise be dating.
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| spectastic | PostPosted: Tue Nov 10, 2015 2:20 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 08, 2014 4:14 am Posts: 20 | | fo shaw. yea tinder girl and I had a long chat last night. i feel much more comfortable with her now. and she's gorgeous too.. it's going down
another thought I had was how open should I be about my intentions? I'd like to have 4-5 girls that I rotate with on a weekly basis, like fwb's and real dates too. I mean shit, I was a total shut in during my early 20s, and I've got a lot of catching up and fucking around to do. it would be easy to be able to keep it open, but I can also understand if they don't want to share, and would get upset if they see me on social media with another girl. I don't want bad blood. tinder girl revealed that she's had casual relationships, so no worries there. but halloween party girl that I'm dating seems more proper, and less keen on FWB-ing.. what are some good ways to approach this?
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| dtrak | PostPosted: Tue Nov 10, 2015 10:29 pm | |
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