| Friday night I went to a bar by myself and had a few drinks. While I was ordering a drink, I seen a woman I ran into a few times sitting directly across from me. I never made a serious attempt at making a convo, just made a few jokes (which she seemed to find somewhat amusing). I also noticed her glancing at me in the gym, but I wrote it off as her just looking around.
As she was sitting at the bar I realized the she was glancing at me, even though she was surrounded by 3 guys I assumed were just her friends. Grabbing my drink and walking away, I didn't see her again until a few hours later. She was sitting by one of the guys I seen with earlier, with a moderate amount space between them. Based on how bored she looked staring at her phone, scrolling through pictures on Instagram, I figured I would actually try to speak to her.
Now this is where things began to go down hill. I crouched beside her (she was sitting in a pretty low chair) and asked her what she was reading after I noticing it was a quote. She handed her phone to me I looked at it briefly and gave it back, only to have her tell me she was seeing someone. Not sure if she was testing me, I asked her if he was at the bar. Before she could reply the guy sitting next to her approached me yelling, something to the effects of "she doesn't want you go away". At that moment I began to forget all about the girl and wanted to toss the little guy across the room, but another guy, I assume came with them, stepped in between the guy yelling and myself. At first he was hostile, but after speaking with him he understood. I decided to leave, seeing how she obviously didn't feel any attraction and thinking I may have misread her.
Outside the bar I ran into a friend and told him what happened. Mid sentence she came out of the bar yelling at me, screaming that I needed to go home. Confused, I asked why she was yelling and once again having her friend tell me that I needed to leave. The look on her face didn't make sense to me, it was almost like I hurt her feelings or possibly caused her feelings to be hurt. My friend pulled me away from the bar.
I'm still confused as to why she was so upset. Is this a somewhat normal situation? Has anyone experienced something like this or can analyze what could've possibly caused the outburst?
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