Quick question. Or the last few weeks a couple women have approached me, and either invited me out, or at the bar bought me drinks.

Is this a mandatory day one close? I have been real busy lately, and the logistics have not been great, so I didn't go for the day one close. Unfortunately some of these women go cold after they have initiated the pick up. I feel that with confident lusty women, if you do not close that night, then it bruises their ego, and they write you off.

That being said, when I am not busy and the logistics are right, these type of women have in the past always been a first day close.

Is there much middle ground here?

I don't think thats a mandatory anything when it comes to social communication. As a leader you are the one that controls who comes in and out of your life. If women are approaching you pretty much have this in the bag. I wrote an article about getting women to approach more often here: pua-lounge/topic190620.html not that you need it.

I've also found the reverse effect happen while turning a woman down for sex. Confident women are most likely to approach the guy that the most likely to turn them down. This is the only thing that convicts them with assertion. Now how is it that you're turning them down? I make a point to always be gentle with women even if that means rejecting them. You'll find more comfort in doing so and more and more women will start coming around. Be confident, be solid(uncompromising), but be gentle.

Women are intuitive and pick up on hints since they are so great at giving them. They're always looking at us to see what hints we're giving off even though us as men don't "think" this way. Hints is their language, so when its time to apply rejection, do so in their language, not in ours.

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