Hey everyone, so recently I've been going through a dry spell, I seem to lose all of the girls I talk to. Now i Dont have a hard time with intros and getting numbers but after that is where things seem to go down hill. Recently I started talking to a girl I picked up a long time ago, small talk lead to me asking her to dinner and she said yes and when she gets back from vacation she I'll call me. Never herd form her tho and not too worried just butt hurt, anyways that is just an example of my bad luck. Usually the girls flake or stop responding to me at some point. I do however try to not be pushy and needy, in fact I might even be boring because of that

Anyways I Dont know what I'm doing wrong or what yo even do right, I'm in my 20s and getting no play what so ever. Someone point me in the right direction

Intros and numbers are one thing... Making your intentions known and garnering legitimate interest is another. Quality numbers are harder to get than saying hi and grabbing her digits in a casual way when her interest in you may be in question.

From the limited details you've provided here I'd say you just don't have the interest when you leave them... You get a number but it's not a quality number.

Can you throw up some examples of your interactions? How you're selecting these girls, and how you're asking them for their numbers?

I usually give them my number and wait for them to message me, but honestly I got this previous girls number a long time ago and decoided to talk to her through Snapchat.

Okay... That's backwards.

Few girls will message you unless they're really into you. Even average looking girls have lots of guys blowing up their phones. Why would they pursue you when guys are lining up?

YOU are the man. YOU take the lead.

Get THEIR numbers and then you're in the drivers seat at least.

Yes as Charles is stating do not give them your # unless you have theirs. Take the initiative.