I kickbox, I work in a desirable shop where there's plenty of good looking women, I've also just started club promoting. How am still struggling to get anywhere with women.
Day to day conversation I'm fine with women, can talk
For hours. But the sexual and flirting side I just don't feel the vibe.( that unexplainable sexual chemistry you can't explain but can just feel)

I just feel at the moment women are just so cocky around me like
Irrelevant where be old girls I've games or new ones. However when I mention what I do or where I work interest picks up. I don't like the idea of people liking me for non genuine reasons.

Some guys have looks that attract women...that's not genuine. Some guys own things that attract women...that's not genuine. Some guys have jobs that attract women...also not genuine. The thing is that it's a door opener for you and it would be ridiculous for you not to take advantage of it. Let them be interested in you for some surface level shit...but be ready to show the genuine side to you and let them be attracted to that down the line.

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First reality based advice I've read in this forum in a long time.

Thats your own fault dude. It's your job to turn the girl on. You do know that, right?

No relationship starts off being "genuine" except maybe your family when you were born if you were lucky to get a nice one.

Point is the more time you spend with someone the more you learn about each other, and if you still enjoy being around each other thats about as genuine as it gets unless you want to move forward into starting your own family.

Do you do endurance training? Do you do one hour runs, one hour shadow boxings and/or one hour jumping ropes? Endurance training lowers your testosterone; hence, lowering your sexual desire towards women.

To reverse this, you should substitute your endurance training with high intensity interval training. Too much endurance training is the main reason why physically fit and strong fighters like Alistair Overeem suffer from low testosterone.

With higher testosterone and hence, a greater desire for women, your batting average with women will drastically improve. Women will touch you more, get closer to you more and flirt with you more. Women, by instinct, can identify high testosterone guys. It's a subconscious girlie-thing to them.

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You want women to be interested in you for the same reasons you are interested in them. And/or for things that you haven't quite developed enough yet, and so they aren't noticing them.

What would be an example of a genuine reason you would want a woman to like you?

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