This is a HB who i was in contact with roughly a year ago. she reinitiated contact with me a few weeks ago and has spoke to me every single day with her messaging me first. her messages consist of her telling me how much she misses me, wants to see me etc basically her showing a hell of a lot of interest.

The problem is she's been with the same guy for several years. Infact, she come to mine before and we done everything except get the lay in. I couldnt get past the resistance and had to go. At the time she never knew that i knew she had a boyfriend. This time she's told me upfront that she has a boyfriend when i asked her who she lives with. It's the same guy as before.

Recently, i tried to get slightly sexual in a convo, how i should be in bed with her while no one was in. She replied telling me how i was being inappropriate because she has a boyfriend.

I'm meant to be going out for drinks with her next week. I want to minimise the resistance i recieve ans wondering if theres anything i can say in reply? Or is it best completely ignore what shes saying and just carry on as i am? I dont want for me to make a move while im out with her and in return her tell me she has a boyfriend so she cant go ahead with whatever it is.

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Faced a similar situation recently. I think these girls who r in a serious relationship, all they want is "Validation" n "Approval" from other guys to satisfy their ego while they r in relationship at the same time. She'll talk to u, hang out wid u even, have drinks... Coz she feels good about herself..Cool guys r still ready to be wid her ryte ?? N when u move fwd from this she realizes "Oh i m in a relationship...this is wrong".

Have u ever wondered Why did she come back to u n texting u every day all of a sudden ?? Wat did u do to make her feel that way ??

Probably nothing. She might b facing problems wid her BF or may not b getting the affection she needs. So she came to u bcoz she knew guys like u would b available for her.
My take on this. If she continues to resist u for 2 to 3 times more, its better to leave her and dont waste ur time.

Really like ur signature btw. "I do knw 1 thing though..Bitches they come they go"
Sort of describes my life. Thts the only reason i replied to ur post btw

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Zero point in trying to make out with her in a club in front of her friends. Escalate it non verbally, do it discreetly. Look at her like you wanna fuck her.

Get her drunk, get her alone. Her vagina will consume you.

Or....just chase the other billion of single girls on this planet. Except muslim countries, it would suck to game there

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Where do u get this from? I haven't made out with her in a club and dont plan to. If you're referring to me making a move it will be more of bringing her back to mine. I want to minimise resistance then.

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Maybe we have a clash of context here?

Well, if you go out for drinks, same applies, get her alone, have some drinks. What you got to lose?

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Sorry yeah, she wont be with friends. Just a drink or two after work. No clubbing though.

Guess i'll just carry on and escalate when i see her. Just wondering if theres anything that could be said for now

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Sounds to me like you're on a one way street behind a car trying to get ahead. Put the car in reverse and just get on a new street man. Its a lot of time and effort into a lay that probably won't be better than any other lay when its all said and done.

Read this: viewtopic.php?f=25&t=190620

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