Got rejected tonight .. It hurt for a hour then I got over it and decided to learn from it... But I don't know where I went wrong ...

This girl is friend I was trying to reconnect with.. I ask her to the movies and but she had got of work late and still wanted to see me, so she suggest we go to a drive in restaurant and just hang out .. She gave lots of lols she was touching me , she took her shoes off , her pupils were dilated , she played with her hair., showing me pictures of her in her work uniform asking if I thought she was sexy. We just had a good time just talking about everything. She even ask to go to the movies the next night, but I couldn't. Her actions were different than her words, she was telling me how I wasn't her type randomly and how she really like me as a friend randomly. So I decided not to make a move and keep her around to meet other girls.. She was posting pictures of me and her on Instagram. A week goes by no contact and she texts me , we get into a little role play via text I was acting like her father when I told her I was going to give her a spanking.. She told me that it was weird and I took it too far and never responded. Where did I go wrong ?

Is she recently out of a relationship? Sounds like that kind of behavior.

Sounds like she just needed and attention fix. She wasn't actually interested, but there is no way to truly know because you didn't man up and make a physical move at escalation while you had her in your midst.

Emotional cuts are like physical cuts. They hurt and leave a temporary mark but the mind/body goes to work on healing it immediately. This is nothing but a paper cut, an emotional paper cut. It'll be burn a bit and then you'll forget it ever happened.

I wouldn't look too deep into it.

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I ended up saying telling her I didn't mean it like that and she replied "lol yes you did!!!" And invited me to go to the movies with her tonight ? Does it sounds like she is intrested ? I don't want to be the guy that just gives her attention ..

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how about you just find out?

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