Should I add her on Facebook, even tho I haven't asked her out yet?

I have a crush on this girl at work. I've been trying to ask her out for the past week, but something would always go wrong with my plans, like she would go home early, or she would be pissed off at someone.

I really want to add her on Facebook, just to see what she has in it.
It seems like she adds everyone who sends her a friend request, and I was wondering if I should try to add her, even tho I haven't asked her out yet.
Or would that be too creepy/stalkerish?

If she is your work colleague then it wouldn't be creepy.

You do know, you can still find her Facebook without being her friend?

She will probably know that you are interested in her if you do this...

but really sounds like you have a lot of pressure to ask her out and it will probably not help in attracting her.

I know what you're up to. You want add her as a friend and ask her out whilst you're hiding behind hour keyboard. In this particular case...I think you should learn what to say, grab your mincy balls, ask her out to her face and leave an great impression, that she adds YOU on Facebook instead.

Come on now. Stop playing not to lose and play to win instead.

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Did you make this thread: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=191986 because you feel that asking her face to face was too much for you so you made a new thread trying to get advice that you WANT to hear?

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Theres no way that I believe that in an entire week of seeing a girl there wasn't a moment to ask her out. Theres no such thing as the perfect moment, its either too early, or too late, its either to loud or too quiet. You have to become the moment and do it anyway.

I would be against you adding her to Facebook for now simply because its another thing distracting you from what you actually want to do. You're already romanticizing her in your mind and starring a more pictures and reading statuses probably isn't going to help that process.

Man up and ask the girl out and then decide whether or not you're going to add her on Facebook.

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I would not add her to facebook if I was interested in sleeping with her...Its sorta like the gates to the friend zone in my eyes.

Facebook add = taking a step backward

Thanks for the advice guys.