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| j999 | PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 6:30 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:41 pm Posts: 41 | | All the pickup material that I’ve read only mentions having dates in the evening or at night. My schedule makes it extremely hard to have evening dates and dates on the weekdays, so I was thinking of doing an afternoon date on the weekend. Also, I have no experience going on actual dates because I’ve only hooked up with women in the past (during college). I’m in my late 20s and looking to date women in their late 20s to late 30s, if that matters.
How plausible is an early or late afternoon coffee date on the weekend for a first date (starting anywhere from around 2-5pm)? What are the pros and cons? What are obstacles that I’ll face?
I’m guessing it’s less effective than an evening date, but could it still allow me to escalate and eventually lead to sex (a few dates down the road)? I was thinking of doing a coffee date after lunchtime on Saturday or Sunday (around 2-5pm). After that, I’d set up a dinner date for the next week.
Also, do you think a woman would be willing to kiss me in the parking lot during the daytime after I walk her back to her car? Would it be a bad idea? Where could we kiss? Or should we just hug at the end of the date since it’s during the daytime?
I’m pretty sure having an afternoon coffee date for a first date isn’t the most effective idea, but I’m wondering if it’s doable and can lead to a kiss or at least future dates where I can kiss her in the evening after dinner.
How should I approach this? How can I make this work?
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| Dragula | PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 7:15 pm | |
| Offline | | English Muffin |  | Joined: Wed Sep 10, 2008 5:40 pm Posts: 5689 | | Think about it, how many coffee dates lead to a passion day time sex at 3pm?
You will lose a lot of girls if you don't change your situation. I hardly doubt you work everyday. You might get lucky every now and then but think long and hard about the dynamic. Pretend you're in her shoes _________________ USER HAS BEEN BANNED FOR REPEATEDLY IGNORING MOD WARNINGS AND MULTIPLE RULE VIOLATIONS
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| n2thevoid | PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 7:51 pm | |
| Offline | | Ask a mod for a custom title | Joined: Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:34 pm Posts: 3993 | | Yes. Think LONNGgg and Hard....
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| Monsignor Crisanto | PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 1:34 am | |
| Offline | | High Priest of Debauchery |  | Joined: Mon Mar 05, 2012 2:48 pm Posts: 3271 Location: Paradise Found | | As Hunter_Foxe used to say, girls cannot suck your cock in Starbucks or Seattle's Best Coffee. A coffee date isn't a good idea for dates except for instadates.
Keep it simple and casual like at the laundromat or grocery for instance and you volunteer to help her with the heavy loads so you can get inside her apartment. Look at the Lay Reports and find examples of grocery pulls from guys like Clozer. If you have your own place, pulling from the grocery to your apartment is easy. Logistics. Always consider that in your game.
I used to have an apartment which is just a 3 minute walk to a 24-hour 7-11 store and pulling is definitely so much easier then compared to where I live now which is at the back of a church. _________________ Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 12:37 pm | |
| Offline | | Read My Book |  | Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm Posts: 5028 Website: http://www.EddieFews.com Location: New York City | | Anything can happen anywhere.
With things like this though, its always better to try it out for yourself first. And then come to us for a tune up. Its about your vibe man. Some places definitely make it easier. But what are you the options? IF you don't have the availability for other hours this is what you have. Men and women have sex in the morning, afternoon and the night, and they kiss during all those hours as well. Tens of thousands of apple are having sex at any given second during saying. Now why can't one of those tens of thousands be you?
Work with what you got for now. But do it first and then come to us to help you out. You don't need help until you evaluate yourself. Find out what you're capable of, then find out what you want, and then we come in. _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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