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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 6:37 am 
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- Banged this girl 5 times, 6 dates in...I pulled on 5 of the 6 dates
- Time is currently being spent
- Claims she really likes me and now wants more, but I will never give her all of me, no way in hell
- Went to a bar, her "friends" were there, I get introduced to her 2 "friends" later tells during a serious convo we had that she banged the both of them, before I entered into the sitaution, one guy was in a real relationship with her. - I k-closed in front of the ex, without knowing the true facts
- Already had that intuition beforehand, however I never brought that up to her to ask
- Now can't trust this girl whatsoever, seems slut-ish to me now lol
- She could be hanging out with this guy without me knowing...who knows..


Going to meet her up tomorrow, which I plan to bang, not so sure if I should even care about the entire situation. However it was quite disrespectful of her to introduce me to some guys she fucked in the past. Should I put this bitch in check and tell her that was highly disrespectful and I don't put up with such behavior. Also there is no way in hell I could stand to be in the same room with these two guys again and run into a bar with them there. Should I continue to bang this chick or just get one last bang before I just drop her and move on from the expected BS to follow. Something tells me regardless I need to address it in person and put her in her place.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 7:08 am 
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You're acting butthurt, get over it.

Madonna/whore complex applies here.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 11:58 am 
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You're tripping bro.

If you don't like the girl or respect what she did, then drop her. If thats what you wanna do.

If you can get over it and see beyond it continue doing your thing. It doesn't sound like this is going to turn out to be a relationship any way. So take it for what it is, enjoy the good times and the move on with your life.

You do sound really upset though. If you feel that way, it may be best to leave her alone all together.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 12:53 pm 
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You're tripping bro.

If you don't like the girl or respect what she did, then drop her. If thats what you wanna do.

If you can get over it and see beyond it continue doing your thing. It doesn't sound like this is going to turn out to be a relationship any way. So take it for what it is, enjoy the good times and the move on with your life.

You do sound really upset though. If you feel that way, it may be best to leave her alone all together.

I was tripping...

Eddie I respect your opinion as you know you've been around since the beginning of my journey into PUA. I took the time to sleep on the situation and the best thing for me to do is to take advantage of the current time and to live in the present. I let my emotions control me, she didn't have to tell me the truth nor introduce me to those guys, does that make it right no. However I will place her on my back burner while enjoying my time with her until it expires because it will. I could put her in her place and call her out on it however this may seem as I care too much or worried about the what ifs which places me into a beta frame, but I'm in the prize at the end of the day, so there's no reason for myself to get emotional. I have to take it for what it's worth and enjoy the moment instead of killing it. In the meantime I should start looking into spinning more plates.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 7:44 pm 
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You're tripping bro.

If you don't like the girl or respect what she did, then drop her. If thats what you wanna do.

If you can get over it and see beyond it continue doing your thing. It doesn't sound like this is going to turn out to be a relationship any way. So take it for what it is, enjoy the good times and the move on with your life.

You do sound really upset though. If you feel that way, it may be best to leave her alone all together.

I was tripping...

Eddie I respect your opinion as you know you've been around since the beginning of my journey into PUA. I took the time to sleep on the situation and the best thing for me to do is to take advantage of the current time and to live in the present. I let my emotions control me, she didn't have to tell me the truth nor introduce me to those guys, does that make it right no. However I will place her on my back burner while enjoying my time with her until it expires because it will. I could put her in her place and call her out on it however this may seem as I care too much or worried about the what ifs which places me into a beta frame, but I'm in the prize at the end of the day, so there's no reason for myself to get emotional. I have to take it for what it's worth and enjoy the moment instead of killing it. In the meantime I should start looking into spinning more plates.

To me that speaks volumes, and is a great insight on your part. Make meditation a part of your daily ritual, you will within a very short time reflect with amazement on how improved your ability to sit with unsettling emotions has become.


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