| I've been bartendering big events for a few years now and this weekend I had a very cool thing happen to me. On this entire festival people are usually very drugged up and completely drunk, but in the crowd that night there she was, the perfect 10! Low on make up, perfect face, perfect body, intelligent eyes and kind. Cover girl material as far as I'm concerned... I guess she must be working somewhere in the area, she looked sober... She ordered some drinks and would you know it, she starts asking me some questions (how is work, how are you, bla bla bla). I didn't notice it untill later, when looking over the crowd I could see her trying to make eye contact several times. I've seen her every single year I worked there, I've seen many guys try but always fail miserably. Anyways made my night, but when I took out the trash after closing time I noticed she was still roaming the site, she grabbed my arm from behind, gave me a nice wink and said see you next friday...
I ve seen her a couple of times the last years, but I never really bothered. I've had my work and sure as hell didnt want to spend any time working my game on a perfect 10 that was clearly rejecting all attention. You just assume they are taken or something like that. I was a late bloomer but as time progresses I seem to attract better and better looking women automatically
Anyways, now come two crazy questions:
1 I am not really interested in scoring this girl. I have a very nice girlfriend, that I've been with for a 2 years now. She's great in every way imaginable and I think it would be stupid to risk losing that over a pretty picture. However, since the misses is going studying abroad for 6 months next year and is surely going to meet new people I was kind of hoping to make a nice new friend to fill in some of the gaps of talking to a girl, watching a movie, going out for a dinner, ...
second question here is: I have never done this before, I am a particularly masculin guy. I play cards, drink beers, go bowl, watch sports. I have always been crystal clear in my intention towards women, which was never before friendship. So the question is, how do I pull this off without it looking like cheating. what do you tell (or not tell) either one of the women?
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