Hey guys,
I'm finding it hard to get myself motivated to approach, it's not even me being nervous.
I just see a hot girl and think that I really can't be bothered or "I'll wait for the next hot girl to come over," and when she does I just revert back to the first excuse.

So, motivation tips?
Thanks.

(Don't say motivation is to get laid bc I am aware of this)

I'm not even sure this is the right place for this question anymore.

Good to see guys out there still considering approaching though.

Try this quote:

“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”


― Og Mandino

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny. You think it enough and it will translate into the rest of your life.

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Damn, you mentioned it so it's no longer valid.

Erm, how about...

One day, you're gonna die.

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Oh no.. the horror....

So let me get this streight..

You have no motivation to approach something the universe created for you to intuitively have to fuck?

Or is it the fact that your SOCIALLY CONDITIONED mind is filling you up with reason why you're not enough?

BOTH reasons are invalid.

All girls subconsciously will feel good when approached by a male because the masculine essence we carry makes them feel unlike nothing else in the world. (sorry if i get a little spiritual here but energy is a real phenomenon)

Ill just wrap it up with:

Not approaching a girl is going against life itself.

You are a man, act like one.

Approach girls correctly and learn how to bed them.

I rest my case.

Ill give you some tools to get you started

1. Cut the bull shit
2. Approach and say hello
3. Give a compliment
4. Small talk about ANYTHING

heres a basic nightgame starter kit i left in another similar post - Check it out This should give you a step by step of what to do on your flustered night out

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=191817

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