Hi,

I am really new to this and so forth. I work with this cute girl who is a bit older than me, and I felt like we got off to a really good start, and felt like she liked me; thing is though that I feel that a lot. For some reason I think that a lot of women like me even though im not particularily buff or good looking.

However, we got off to a good start and she always feel somewhat self-concious around me, restricted and so forth. She might be that way as a person, she is smiling a ton, fixing her hair and laughing at nothing. We were talking about what I wanted to do in the future and how many years pf studying and what not it would take me and it felt like she counted our age difference instead, starting at 21 and ending at 27 instead of 28 and recounted. And she is around me a lot for no reason, like coming to my office to do basically nothing, and if I am busy just leaving real quick. Also earlier this week I was made fun of by some colleagues, just pulling my leg and I didnt mind at first, after a while I got a bit uncomforrable and then she stopped laughing as well..

Just how do I really gauge her interest in the work environment, not really sure how to slowly escalate either?

Do you need a bunch of scientific data? NO!

1st Think about your job. If you fuck this up it can have serious negative effects on your work.

If that is of no concern and you are interested, pursue as soon as possible. Assume she likes you.

Man up and ask her to join you for a drink at 5:15 at the nearest local pub.

If she say no. Smile politely say that's cool and Drop it!

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Well you answered your own question. That is exactly why I want some "scientific evidence" considering it is a job and so forth, and is also why I want to tread pretty careful..

The advice I gave you wouldn't be out of line. She knows your intention as soon as you open your mouth. If you get a negative response, keep all future interactions professional. That simple.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

One of the main rules this community teaches is the "Assuming of Attraction.". It is the confidence of the frame of assuming women are into you that can start the process of creating attraction. If you "think" she's into you, that's good enough for you to try.

Find out by asking her out, if she objects leave it be to maintain the integrity of the "work environment"

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Yeah I guess you fellas are right, I will give it another week, only been here for 2

Or maybe a month.... the timing just doesn't seem right.

I have plans to clean the cracks in my floor.
I have some real hard words to look up in the dictionary.
I have to alphabetize my CDs.
I have to answer all of my "occupant" letters.

If you are really scared to do something, any excuse will do. It's called I don't want to leave my comfort zone.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

well that is surely one way to see it, but since I will just work therr for another 2 months I will just take it slow. In a couple of weeks we will basically be the only ones in the office.

Cool bang her right there in the office...I've done that.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Haha maybe that is the way to go. She shows so much obvious signs, like glancing a lot, foot and knees towards me while dangling her shoe which almost gave me a hardon. Then its the random things like coming around the office for no particular reason and so forth, and whenever she does that I get the intuition and feeling that I should just quit what I am doing and go have a nice conversation with her. How do I know if she isnt just trying flirting for giggles, she has turned down guys right in front of mw