Hi PUA forum members,

A friend recently linked me to the facebook of a student teacher I had this year (I only had her for a few lessons over the coarse of a month after changing somethings around). This women is smoking hot (I don't normally use that phrase but she's a 10/10 so I will haha). She's in her low 20s, I'm 18 (I took this class this year).

Back in those few lessons we had a cool relationship, and a few friends even mentioned her to me (about our relationship). She seemed a bit hesitant to flirt, but thats most likely because of the student- teacher thing. Eventually she did flirt more but I never tried to make a move. Now that I'm out of highschool (just graduated), and shes not my teacher I was thinking I could message her on facebook and we could eventually meet up and then something could happen from there.



Any advice on how the facebook message should go. Should I initially address her by her firstname (I always used to call her ms._____ in school because it was school) or should I start by addressing her as ms.________.
I was thinking I would start by the ms.______ and then ask her if I could call her by her first name now that I graduated.
I could use all the advice you have PUAs!

I'm curious how you thought this belonged in the lounge... And by curious I mean I am genuinely interested, from the perspective of a new user - how you decided to post here (not a joke, I really want to know if you thought your situation was different so it belonged here or if you just randomly chose it).

Do we not have the sections labelled right? Is the disclaimer "not for newbie questions" too ambiguous or not well placed? Serious question.

It's certainly not a newbie question (newbies are struggling to sleep with the girl next door, and wouldn't even attempt to sleep/have a relationship with a hot teacher; this rules out 'general questions').
I wouldn't call it an online sarging question either (although it does involve facebook, the question is more about generally wanting to sleep with her; it's literally called "help with my old teacher" not 'help facebooking my old teacher').
Beyond that I wouldn't know where to put it, but then again Im not a frequent user of the forum.


That being said, I notice you are a moderator: could you please move this to the proper forum section?

It is ABSOLUTELY as newbie as it gets.

You are literally asking how to address her in a Facebook message.

Read the forum rules and lounge rules please. Moved to general questions.

Thank you, btw