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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 6:42 pm 
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I went on a date with one girl, and we banged. She's been texting me non stop, and I'm pretty sure she wants a relationship. She seems REALLY into me. I don't think I'm ready for that.. I'd like to keep her as a FWB, but I don't want to break her heart. What's the best way to approach this?

I'm going to see her next weekend.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 6:47 pm 
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It's going to end in tears, imagine if someone posted this about your daughter? Whatever your advice would be then take it.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 7:18 pm 
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It's going to end in tears, imagine if someone posted this about your daughter? Whatever your advice would be then take it.

No, there's gotta be a way.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 8:14 pm 
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there is a way to make her your FWB... but there is no way you won't break her heart.


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First understand that is natural to feel this way just after you bang a girl who becomes super interested in you after. And understand that the tide can always turn man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; so it is only because she isn't leaving you room to breath that you get the FWB feeling. But if she was to suddenly pull away and be treating you indifferently, its a chance you could start to feel LTR all of a sudden.

I say keep it cool for now. Text back when you feel like it. Sometimes don't text back at all. Just feel it out man. You're going to see her next week so don't draw any lines as of yet. You draw a line and a woman is going to hold you to it. This is how guys end up with broken hearts. They're too quick to think that everything they feel in the now is the say all be all; and those things can change.

Play it cool. Make your decision after the next time you see her.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2015 10:48 pm 
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SO fucking glad you said this bro

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SO fucking glad you said this bro
No doubt man.

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Just be ethical about it bro, "first do no harm" and all that stuff.


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First understand that is natural to feel this way just after you bang a girl who becomes super interested in you after. And understand that the tide can always turn man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; so it is only because she isn't leaving you room to breath that you get the FWB feeling. But if she was to suddenly pull away and be treating you indifferently, its a chance you could start to feel LTR all of a sudden.

I say keep it cool for now. Text back when you feel like it. Sometimes don't text back at all. Just feel it out man. You're going to see her next week so don't draw any lines as of yet. You draw a line and a woman is going to hold you to it. This is how guys end up with broken hearts. They're too quick to think that everything they feel in the now is the say all be all; and those things can change.

Play it cool. Make your decision after the next time you see her.


You were fucking right.

The day before yesterday, I was like "Leave me the fuck alone, please."

Yesterday, I felt good to see her text me. I encouraged the conversation to flow.

Today, I couldn't stop thinking about her. She's like, beautiful to me and shit. I felt so good to see her say "I'll still like you, though!" in a response. I can't wait to see her again, and have fun with her. I hope I'm not developing oneitis. Almost all of my previous failures were due to neediness.

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First understand that is natural to feel this way just after you bang a girl who becomes super interested in you after. And understand that the tide can always turn man. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; so it is only because she isn't leaving you room to breath that you get the FWB feeling. But if she was to suddenly pull away and be treating you indifferently, its a chance you could start to feel LTR all of a sudden.

I say keep it cool for now. Text back when you feel like it. Sometimes don't text back at all. Just feel it out man. You're going to see her next week so don't draw any lines as of yet. You draw a line and a woman is going to hold you to it. This is how guys end up with broken hearts. They're too quick to think that everything they feel in the now is the say all be all; and those things can change.

Play it cool. Make your decision after the next time you see her.


You were fucking right.

The day before yesterday, I was like "Leave me the fuck alone, please."

Yesterday, I felt good to see her text me. I encouraged the conversation to flow.

Today, I couldn't stop thinking about her. She's like, beautiful to me and shit. I felt so good to see her say "I'll still like you, though!" in a response. I can't wait to see her again, and have fun with her. I hope I'm not developing oneitis. Almost all of my previous failures were due to neediness.

Lol I always am.

And if you are.. You can stop it. Which I would advise you to do. Not worth it. NO girls worth that much energy and effort.

Drop her completely if you start feeling emotionally unable to handle yourself. Just walk away far before it gets bad. You'll be better for it.

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