I stumble this girl on a dating site and added her on facebook. I managed to control the conversation light teasing and not paying too much attention on her since at the back I know that she wants to recruit me and give them some cash. I met her with her team and played it nicely by giving her too much attention. I think she alsi qualified herself coz she ordered me a more expensive meal than the group. She also said that I am good at math and iT when we are discussing. She said that I should teach her on softwares.

After the meeting, I sent her a msg thanking her and the group. Just a short text. She replied openly and invited again if I have time. She said that she will accompany me on seminars.

I said I'll try if I have time and thanked her for ordering food.

What should I do next?

I was able to dhv which is true like I have a housing loan already and I will be assigned in london in a month for 2 months only. And i cannot decide whether to invest in them.

I am planning to see her again and will invite her for an activity like ktv, billiards or something fun. And hopefully escalate on her.

Any tips or frame that I can use since her goal is to recruit me and my goal is to close her.

PS. I have changed a lot for better like going to gym and my confidence is too high since I have changed my lifestyle for good..

DHV'ing in the fashion you did will only prepare you to be used by the person you are doing it to. I don't think you want to position yourself as a possible "come up" for some girl just so you want to bang. You don't need money to attract women; all you truly need is social skills and a admirable self esteem. When you have the confidence you claim to have that in itself is enough to win a woman over.

You're already on the right track though, but positioning her for an activity outside of the work environment.

The right frame you want to project is " You just wanna recruit me so you can seduce me". Now of course this is never something you say, it is just something you project. Act it, walk it, and talk it without saying it directly. It is the frame of assuming attraction that inspires the opposite sex to be attracted to you. Women feel about us what we inspire them to feel about us with our self belief.

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Thanks Eddie for the advice. I am glad that you replied on my post. I've been following you in this site and also on your blogs.

For the dhv, I've done it in a subtle way without compromising my aura. But I agree, it was an improvement point for me to not to dhv. My body language should do it.

Thanks! It is clear now. Before it was a puzzle on how to frame this but through your advice, it looks like this should be treated as the usual I am the price frame. Cheers!