So i met a half Brazilian half Venezuelan girl who has been born and raised in Colombia in a new hostel i'm staying in. She's the receptionist. She went out last night for her birthday and invited me out. I couldn't be arsed, i went and ate and chilled and watched a movie. I woke up this morning to her lying on the next bed along, when she was supposed to be working, it's a small hostel and no one else in the room, i called her out on what she was doing (oh yeah i speak spanish like a motherfucker) when she jumped up as though she had been scalded for doing something wrong, i then invited her to my bed, she came, we spooned, we fucked, she sucked my dick and now for the past couple days she comes up to the room whenever she can and we fuck. Obviously with a heritage like that she is hot. Beautiful face, friendly personality and a big old booty. But i'm just not attracted to her beyond the physical. If it's easy i don't want it. I'm sure i'm not the first guy to be so lucky and all i did was play it cool but confident, and just took what i wanted and gave her what she wanted. I'm polite to her, i keep our little rendezvous' secret, i cuddle her a little after we fuck and then i get up and go do whatever it is i'm doing. And best of all she doesn't seem to ask for more. It's perfect!! Would you guys argue that the easygoingness and lack of emotion involved here however is how you should treat all women for success with them? I mean whenever i have put a girl that i do actually like on a pedestal, we haven't ended up fucking our brains out and more often than not nothing comes of it at all other than a sore fucking heart for me. It just seems at odds...

Absolutely.

As a man you must maintain some level of detachment. Opposites attract and women are attachers at their nature. They attach to their man, their children, and their home. Men have to detach to leave our women at home, leave the children, and go hunt. Its in our nature, and so the only way to maintain a natural relationship is to be in tune with your nature as someone detached.

The girls you're getting emotional over are the girls that are still someone outside of your league. But you're fighting for an opportunity with them.

Every girl looks the same after you have sex with them enough. Aesthetics are only cool to look at, but what a man sees is based on his emotional state.

So your conclusion is rooted in much truth. You can be with a girl as long as you want so long as you remain somewhat detached. Overly attach and the relationship will be short lived. Can't have you cake and eat it.

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