(Mixed PUA and Redpill ideology below, proceed with caution)

So I have been reading about the "redpill" ideology that is currently popular among the anti-feminist crowd. The claim that the mainstream society is bluepill (influenced by feminism, be nice guy bla bla) but that the redpill tells the truths about women.

The reason I read it because they share some commonalities with the seduction community and I thought that it won't do any harm for me to learn them because I have already read some PUA materials and they claim that game is just a part of The Red Pill. Well I guess that's a big mistake for me. After a while I noticed that some of the knowledge from Redpill is slowly affecting my LTR. I slowly noticing my girl's shit tests (but oddly being exceptionally good at passing them and holding a strong frame) and mind manipulation and I started to pick them out one by one and told her that women are manipulative creatures (quite true, but big mistake to tell her logics.. since I was then talking to her logics instead of her emotions as I should have). Obviously no one like to be criticized and neither did my girl. I find that one of the flaws in the Redpill ideology is that despite it seemingly have some sound theories (alpha vs beta male, shit tests, etc).. it focuses too much on the A2 (female to male interest) aspect of seduction (if i am using mystery's M3 model here) and ignoring A3 (the male to female interest) and especially ignoring the comfort (C1, C2, C3) area. Plus the constant hate and nagging about mainstream feminism (I am not defending feminism here) has made the Redpillers (including me) become the sort of people who constantly push their ideology to your face.. almost living like a social robot.

Sometimes there are facts but you shouldn't be too obsessed in them or you turn into a radicalist just like the ideology that you're opposing. I almost broke one of the PUA concepts that is common in PUA forums that in order to attract women you first have to love them, not hate them. I now understand that in order to attract have a higher SMV, but that's only one aspect... the other aspect is that what am I seeking from them? Yes women will throw tests at my face and maybe toy with my head around (since they have better social skills compared to most AFCs), due to being approached many times but that doesn't mean that I should hate them for that. Or maybe I just need to adjust my standard (refer to mystery's A3) and understand what I will get from her based on her answers to my bait.

Now we're just keeping it casual because the relationship has turned sour recently after I picked up all of her flaws and became a true asshole not the balanced true Alpha male (that attracts women as well as being attracted by them). I feel like I need to focus more on the things that work for me (the PUA methods guys ) and detox myself from some (not all) of the Red Pill-ian ideologies that have flaws in them.
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either everything i said above is correct.....
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or.. that redpill is correct and that I have now become an Alpha male (according to redpill standards) and I have a new demand (wanting a very submissive woman, which is according to redpill is alpha) that didn't exist before when I started seeing her (when i only knew PUA, not with the addition of redpill ideology)

Either way I have changed now and according to a PUA concept, my personality that initially attracted her has now been altered because of the Redpill and hence we fought quite a lot.

Note: my girl doesn't object to sex but her ASD extends even during sex.. which I find is a bit odd? (someone enlighten me) and she always mentions about her past asshole exes and how they fought and stuffs. Or maybe it's all an unintentional shit test she gave me (I admit that sometimes I find letting girls become more of the dominant role in bed is quite hot and because of this she became reluctant to fully submit herself to me when I take charge).

I would appreciate your inputs.


Balls-of-Steel