Hi guys Im a 17 yo dude from Indonesia.. WALL OF TEXT AHEAD
Ok so my story is:
Indonesia is a country where pick up is seen as extremely negative. People are religious yada,yada even though the amount of hookers here is way more than other countries esp. minor ones.

I do home school for a couple years since grade 9. Now I'm grade 11 and want to go to a regular school now 'cause I feel so lonely and horny. I think I have to reroll grade 10 if I want to go to a regular school for whatever reason.

I don't want to mainly game at school because it won't be good for me in the long run (people know each other they talk behind your back etc.) So I'm thinking of gaming at the mall (Question : any other places you think I can game at). Gaming on the streets is out of the question because in my country its always so very hot and is so dusty that you will definetly sweat and feel like shit in 30 minutes or something. it's pretty much as bad as in the middle of a desert.

Now I'm a complete noob never approached a random girl.. approached random males seldomly asking anything like where they got their haircut, or shoes, whatever etc. not longer than 1 minute convo.

I know the openers like hey do you guys have a minute? or are u guys in a rush? then give a compliment like I find you guys incredibly attractive.. Then introduce my name - ask theirs.. Then the actual conversation.. HOW THE FUCK DO I DO THE CONVO so it lasts atleast 5 minutes so I can successfully get their numbers and they won't forget me.

Also I am scared to game at the mall because again pick up is seen as extremely negative that I might just get kicked out just because of picking up chicks (not literally ofc).

Places I might game at :
- Mall
- School
- ?

Places I dont game at :
- Streets
- Bars
- Clubs (not the kind of dude to go to bars/clubs maybe because I'm introvert? I also dont like cigarettes smoke)

CONSTRUCTIVE COMMENTS ARE WELCOME/NEGATIVES ARE NOT. But you can do whatever as long as its still within the rules.

Sorry if my thread looks shit I have sleeping problems and slept for like 4 hours only last night.

Welcome to the forum.

Firstly I would disagree about gaming at school. I don't think it makes you look like a creep. (You think every person at that school who dates is a creep? That nuts.)

Secondly you're in luck as this topic has been discussed a thousand times already. You can search for answers... And I've pulled out a few threads from the results for you already as well:

not-sure-how-to-fix-a-certain-area-of-m ... 90360.html
why-you-feel-the-need-to-have-an-opener ... 90301.html
what-do-you-do-after-the-opener-vt20602.html
how-to-hook-conversation-with-her-after ... 85776.html

Read those. Do some homework. Watch a few YouTube videos on this topic (just go search for stuff) and then don't hesitate or wait: put it into practice. Get out there and TRY this stuff and find out what works.

Change what doesn't.

That's the only way to get good. Reading theory and forums will only get you so far and prepare you so much.

Good luck!