(Preamble: I've already f-closed this girl)

She texted me a quick text basically telling a situation of her life in which she was thinking of me. I commented on that, but also escalated sexually immediately by painting her an explicit picture of us together.

Her response was extremely positive: she told me about the energy that she felt from those words, and that the fact that she didn't write it, it didn't mean that she hadn't been thinking about us in bed together all day, and the thought was so present now that it was making her speechless.

Thus I decided to escalate a step more, and I painted even more vivid pictures, telling her how much I was desiring her; however, at the end of the message, I transformed the frame into a strong dominating one, telling her how harshly and deeply I'd fuck her. I did it because, well, first off, I felt it this way; and, secondly, our sexual experiences have been quite intense and dominating.

She has seen the message but didn't reply, which I find quite weird as it has been more than 12 hours without any contact. I'm posting here mostly not to give in to the panic that tells me to send her a message, telling her that I hope she didn't misunderstand those words as disrespect, as I used them to indicate the strength of my passion in that moment of vivid imagination.

I am going to wait at least 24 hours before I take any actions, but if she doesn't reply, I really don't know what to do. Ignoring it? Acting cool and completely disregard it (it's hard to do it on text, when the whole message history is just there)? Bringing it up?

One of the number one destroyers of the phone game has to be the "Read" function that has been added to both Facebook chats, and text messaging chats. The concept of a mans post being "read" and not replied to destroys his patience(which is a key component to seduction), and send him into this wonder and desperation.

I never cared for the feature. I'll respond when I respond. I don't care "when" I read it. If I wasn't ready to respond at that moment because " I couldn't think of anything" , "I got busy", "I felt anxious about what to say" etc. I just don't respond until I am ready.

The game is all patience man. All patience. You have to learn when to sit back and chill for a bit and let the chick do some work.

As men we are always looking for solutions, looking for a way to repair what seems to be a problem, but sometimes the best healer is time. Technology has created this illusion that we can always find a way to repair things in this moment because we have a device in our hand that has access to anyone we choose in a split second. That works in business, it works for logistics, but its completely irrelevant to romance and seduction.

We have to learn how to sit back and rekindle whatever it is that needs to be rekindled when we are most emotionally fit to rekindle it.

Don't give yourself a "time".. Don't say " I'll respond in 24 hours", say " I'll fix it when I'm ready" or " I'll respond when I'm ready".

When you believe in yourself, the women are not going any where man. It is the guys constantly trying to repair and fix what they feel to be broken that let women get away from them. If she's yours she'll be yours. Theres a lot more going on in her life that you. Have patience bro.

She may even fix it herself.

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I understand the need for patience, but it also seems a waste to me to let her brood in negative emotions because of an unfortunate choice of words, when she was just saying how amazing I made her feel.

Lol... You think she's sitting down somewhere in a dark room sulking still thinking about that? Get over yourself bro. She's moved on. Trust me. You're acting like you made a threat to her life.

You're trying to remedy the "awkwardness" and "distance" YOU feel. This has nothing to do with her.

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Solid advice. Thanks.

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