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I'm sure of how you can read this post and then have the nerve to call the guy in the story a pussy, when you've came to us to write a paragraph about a girl thats clearly leaving the opening for you generate attraction and you've done nothing because you're "confused".
Do you not see the irony in that?
How about you make a move(ask her out, escalate, touch her back etc.) and see how she responds instead of judging someone for doing that which you don't have the confidence to do yourself?
I am for sure not a pussy.
First things first, I didn't bother getting her number because I'm not really the "over the phone game" type of guy. My texting is pretty bad and I hate talking on the phone, so when it's a person I will see everyday I prefer to just speak in person. That way things don't get misinterpreted, and I've been told I have a great smile so that always helps a lot. Secondly, I do touch her back. Sometimes she says, "Don't touch me", other times she just accepts it and smiles. Thirdly, we do flirt. I have no problem with generating attraction with women. That's not what this question was about. Lastly, as I stated in the OP, I would have no problem asking her out on a date. I am not nervous, my only issue is that I wanted to make sure I wasn't misjudging signals because I am an over thinker and tend to read into things a lot in general. By me asking her out I would probably lose the chance with the friend if it turned out that she wasn't interested and I was way off the mark.
I know nobody here can tell for sure because they don't know the woman, but by seeing other people's interpretations of her actions it lets me see if we're on the same wave length or I'm just looking too deep into things. Me and that dude aren't comparable, I actually speak to the girl for starters.
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