I need your help guys.
I usually go out with my friends, we go to clubs, music events, live music etc. I've noticed several women looking at me and checking me out, sometimes they even approach me, when that happens I have no problem attracting, flirting, make emotional connection, etc.
But when it comes to me approaching them I feel like I just can't do it, I have approach anxiety.
I don't really like the idea of being direct, so I would like you guys to help me with some routines to meet women in clubs or bars.

For example I was thinking about asking girls something like this: me and my friends are making a contest. So we take a photo of a girl or group of girls and tell them that the hottest pic will have a prize (or some random shit). Then ask them for their fb, IG, etc. Obviously we start talking or dancing with the target while doing this. I don't know what you think about this "routine", maybe it seems creepy or AFC, anyway girls or group of girls in clubs/bars are just looking for fun and usually they're more open to do crazy stuff .

Tell me what do you think or reply with a club/bar routine that worked for you.

Thanks.

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I guess your photo routine could work but you you don't want to be a one trick pony and use it on several different sets in the same venue. Just think about how that would look.

Personally, I think you're going about this issue the wrong way.

Why don't you tackle your anxiety instead instead of painting over the cracks?

Have a weekend of blasting your AA and getting rejected like crazy until you don't give a damn anymore. That's why I do not have AA. Direct day game is an excellent way to solve this issue with the additional of doing it without the alcohol crutch.

Man up and tackle your real sticking points and change your life. Stop being dependent on the booze and earn core confidence.

Try this for a routine. Give your friend some money and tell him to not give it you back until you have approached x amount of girls.

There is tons of content on the forum regarding AA.

To summarise:
• Prevention is better then cure.
• AA is the core issue. Not a lack of a routine.

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do what gunwitch call the "hoover" in other words get in their perimeter sort of speak, women do this a lot specially with the cell phone, then you can say hi! or whatever, what you are doing also after the opener, is just open and see how they react, then you calibrate after... but do not worry about the opener, or elaborated openers that will make you get more into your head, what is important is the subcommunication (how you are comming across none verbally)

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i want to ad is that what i do is to force some type of approach invite, via sign, a dance,smile, eye contact etc... to gauge reaction prior to open, this works for me, but if you are beginner you do not have many references experience to gauge reaction since you are more in your head...

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