During a summer break, I went on a party binge because I befriended a group of alpha males high value who have all connection to the hottest girls (model, celebs, instragram celeb, etc) in town. So I basically went out everyday because these guys are the shit party animal (they don't have that much game cold approach, but in social group they are super alpha cuz of money and status).

I told myself to be well composed at first (i'm decently good with women, and give off funny social vibe), but since new to the environment with so many hot girls to game, I started to game more girls. I got a blow job and lots of make out, but the words spread like wildfire from guys who I steal girls from. Then I started to have bad reputation, so I became paranoid. Paranoid + shitloads of alcohol everyday for a month makes my brain and mood very bad (I depend on alcohol to be happy). When this happen, I became very needy, speaks everything from the frame of neediness, became less attractive, and from hot casanova to a horny dude (maybe?).

Question: Is it possible for me to reintroduce myself to the crowd and regain my value if I pull it off with my usual vibe when I'm not drunk and paranoid. The thing is I am actually good looking and go to top-class college that ppl know (not to show off). Another point is most of the people I only meet them in clubs, so we dont even get to converse proper conversation just lots of crazy club shouting, so no one really know me yet. And also I haven't met any of them for a year because I go college to school abroad.

So I'm hoping that the dislike is superficial and the 1 year gap will make them forget about my low value behavior, so I can start new more cautiously this time. Is it possible to regain value in my case? How should I approach?

Also please don't make heartless typical PUA comment fuck them find new friends stuff. I'm in the same society, cannot escape unless I make a big decision to live in another city which i wont.Thanks

Ok maybe another question: Is it possible to regain value if ur frame is strong enough? in some case I have to have a meal with someone of high value that dislike me and can make shit awkward. I dont socialize that well when i feel being scrutinized by haters of high value. I dont dare to proceed fearlessly like i dont give a fuck because they might hate me even more and bitch behin my back. wheras if i just be quiet they will just ignore me, but I wont get to game the girl.

I believe your case is a rather complex one, not easy to discuss over text like this. There are many details that's not revealed in your story. Just to say some "wise words", remember that:

1. It's easier to make a good impression on new people than changing an existing perception.
2. Every action has consequences. Now you have to deal with them.

You could try saying you're sorry and prove that you have become a better person. But that will take time and lots of work. As long as you are egoistical about girls you will keep making enemies.

Thats like saying " is it possible to regain money after you go broke if you come up with a solid business plan?"

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