we been knowing each other for 2 yrs now,just the last 8 months in a serious relationship ,she was being sneaky in a cheating way the last 2 months.. i got tired of seeing it so i said something about it, she got pissed the first time and told me "you dont trust me" the next time i asked for her phone that baby got mad so she says i stress her to much and she ended it with me ,because i accuse her of cheating and she says shes not but actions speak louder than words.I love her i do , she hasn't contacted me in 4 days but just a few mins, ago she texted me saying that we can start over as friends but there will be no sex ,no kissing ,no hold hands,she but me on a back burner it sounds like to me while she having fun with someone else. i think i should walk away ,i will not go back to a friend status hell no , so what can i do to help my situation?need advice

This sounds like an amazing deal for you. I can see why you would want a second opinion, since it sounds too good to be true!

I really hope this is a troll... It's not a bad one!

If not ------- give your head a shake, man! Who would accept those terms? You posted this on a pickup forum...

she done this before put me on the back burner always came back to me after she gets hurt but right now shes having a blast with someone else, .when we was just friends she was seeing a guy for 2 yrs,i was the backup stayed that way for over a yr..i never knew about him, he never knew about me ,she did apologize to me later on ,she said shes not like that no more but here we go again,,trust issues she says i got . how is this a amazing deal to me?shes with somebody else.

Bro..

Are you kidding me?

She's only doing to her what you allow her to. She's cheating on you. YES. Now get the fuck away from her and she will come back full of guilt crying. This shit happens everyday. Change your number and delete everything of her from your life right now. After that, ignore the emotional whiplash thats going to tell you that what she did was a bad idea. Its going to tell you that maybe she wasn't cheating. Its a lie. Get away from her.

If you continue returning she will continuing doing what she did.

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i told her i cant be your friend that will not work for me,,i know shes cheating she always put me on back burner ,,im the backup but no more ,i want her to feel guilty about this how can i do that?

She cheated, man. Who cares if she feels guilty about it or not? It doesn't change anything at all. It won't turn the clock back. Move on.

You move the fuck on and never speak to her again. Talking to her eases the guilt. She'll think " He still talks to me, so what I did must not be that bad". Dissappear. You don't need to ask any more questions about this girl ever again. MOVE ON seriously. Never EVER speak to her again.

And just know that this is YOUR FAULT, you picked this girl, and you allowed her to continue having say in your life after shake behavior. She isn't going to cheat on a man she admires and respects.

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It is my fault,,the next 1 I need a coach