i need to change my external image andi'm having some difficulties knowing what to do. maybe this is the right place to ask for help.
I'm a 39 year old guy and i've getting these comments from people, mostly women calling me a creep or being a pedophile or even gay.
Need to change my image asap. Any tips?
I know i'm not attractive i have that notion, but maybe something can be done
Things i've been told just by a picture: look like a pedo (bald, old, creepy, shitty facial hair, unnatractive,efeminate, zero sex appeal).
Things im going to try: Gym (Bulk training), Shave head (Bic it), Tan, Skin care, shave the goatee and leave the stubble or just shave it all, different clothes, im also getting a double jaw surgery/chin advancement maybe that will help.
What's giving the pedophile and efeminate vibe is beyond me.
Maybe i can post the picture and you guys give some tips. I dont mind being ugly but a creep that's bad!
http://i1188.photobucket.com/albums/z41 ... aaaa_1.png
what would you do/change if you were in my shoes at the moment?