hey guys

i like to think i have the physical attributes of an alpha male (6'3, muscular, play sports) but my personality is very laid back. I recently relocated cities in the past 6 months and still trying to get a good social circle so find myself being too nice and maybe even needy in trying to gain friends and get a good social standing. pick up has been going well, just wanna step up in the alpha male mentallity dept think it will help pick up as well as other areas.

Any tips greatly appreciated!

social circle comes easiest with commonalities so go online look for social gathering for a particular niche.. like dodgeball, hiking, or some bs like that.. its easier to make friends when you have similar challenges or task your in on together.

There are different definitions for alpha... some pople like to think of it as too cool for school. or i dont put up with shit because im the boss...

typically alpha is just believing in yourself.. as in you know that you are worth while... if you saw yourself at the club/bar/school/mall you would hang out with your self.
this is where stories and interesting topics come naturally.. if you truly like yourself... the words that come out of your mouth will feel more confident and secure... and people willl listen if the vibe is just that.

you are also understanding of peoples views but have certain standards that if people dont meet. you will address but not be reactive about it.

its like if your name is mike and people around start calling you mike dyke mike dyke..

some people might get emotional and wein about it.. which make the people observing the situation realise that you get emotional under negative feed back.. and they'll remmeber that in the future.. and if it happenes to many times people start to label you.

but true alphas observe the situation and simply say "dont call me that.." in the im not affected by what your saying, but at the same time i have a higher standard for myself than to let you keep saying that, kind of way.

there you go man thats like a short key points kind of post hope it helps.

How many women have you approached? Approach women will build up your friend and rejection will strength this part of you thats "too nice".

Alpha is a frame.. Your physical looks are a very very small portion of it. I know 5 foot 3 napoleon syndrome alpha males.

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Look at people who lead. You can use anyone you want as an example... Try and learn something from them. Learn how to lead.

A couple examples I would give you are guys like Mark Cuban, Lil Wayne, Jay-Z... Those are guys who you can look up their interviews on Youtube and get an idea about how they think. You start thinking like them.

But you can look up to anyone you want man. I've surrounded myself with some pretty bad ass dudes in my life. We're all pretty similar to each other personality wise. We all provide a good influence for each other. That's how you become the "alpha male" is by having "alpha male" influences.

Don't think you need a huge social circle either. Think of the way the group of friends are in The Fast and Furious movies... Be the leader of a brotherhood.