| Gents,
Hooked up with an HB9 off tinder, not much gaming - she invited me over last minute inspite of my preference for going out.
Thats when my entire inner game and mind set got derailed. I was very awkward the first 20 minutes in. Being very much a confused beta bitch, looking unimpressed, and bored.
After a beer (she offered me 'left over beer'), my social game felt more lubricated and i started teasing her about her 'men preferences' and that she only swipes (on tinder) the interesting men and not the good looking ones. I figured she was throwing a hit at me (In the back of my head I knew, that any girl that invites a man over to her place. is going to fuck him) - she may of not even realized it at the time. I knew it, so there wasnt much of anything that could throw me off.
Slowly I warmed up to her and tried giving her a kiss, got rejected - grabbed my coat she insisted i try again but later i said no and kissed her again right away. She tried putting a movie on, couldnt get it to work and suggested we go upstairs to her room - Ill save the details but it didnt take long before sex. Thats when I got my first cue i'll probably never see her again - she never went down on me. After sex I was already thinking of my next date thats when she threw me off again with the line "youre the hit and quit type of guy arent you?" I fucked up and said "no babe im staying over, youre making us breakfast tomorrow" - instead of actually staying i couldnt wait to get out of there.
I remembered of an immaginative early meeting the next morning and headed out - i locked her door from the inside since she was long asleep (key detail), I thought that was considerate.
Got home and thanked her for the 'great night' over text. Next morning - noon, no reply. Buyer's remorse? Not convinced so I text her again "youre welcome" she replies "whats wrong yada yada" calling me a 'sensitive guy" i play it off - ask her whats her evening is like. She says shes staying in - i ask "wheres my invite" - silence. I started to really sense a buyer's remorse. I didnt text her for next two days, on the 3rd the idea that shes an HB9 drove me insane, i couldnt let it go, and texted her again. Casual text chat, she kept saying I was 'overly confident' i brushed it off, asked her about if shes free the next night - silence.
Force majeure? She just wanted a lay? Was I the one that played? What could of I done better?
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