Right now I am obligated to a woman who is trying to provide a good home for her children. I have committed myself to helping her every day, repairing an almost unlivable home that she has just found and turn it into something better, so that she may get custody. All of this is "BIG" and all of this goes beyond "THE GAME", but, I am still attracted to her. Right now, I find myself to be very much in the position of "THE NICE GUY". I'm not interested in that role, because, I'm more than that. I can't just tell her that I am more, that would backfire. I need to show her and I have no idea how. Things are at such a sensitive position right now, because she is a recovering addict and is just now becoming successful at a job, other than stripping. Yes, she is a former stripper and a former porn-star. This entire situation is very involved, extremely intricate. Yet, they say that they're all the same. Please, give me the best advice you can, I will happily send you further information concerning this ordeal.

I can smell Friend Zone Here !!

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If it is the Friend Zone, how would you suggest that I get out of it? Just shut things down? If so, that will only happen after I finish helping her with the home, like I said, I have been where she is and there are kids involved. I realize that this looks DEAD-ON like a friend zone situation, it is my fault. The problem is that something has arisen that is larger than the immediate "hook-up". I will do what is best, then I will shut it down. I am not interested in being just a friend and I will not be. But, for the moment, I will act on behalf of the children. Other than the hope of some sort of divine evolution, this situation seems to be a loss. As I have said above, if any of you can offer advice, please do so and thank you.

I'm half thinking this is a troll... but I'll bite:

A stripper/porn star who is using you for support and for money - and you're wondering how to proceed?

If you don't actually see what's happening then you need to step back and look at this as an outsider would - because it's glaringly obvious what she's doing...

Get out. That's all. You don't need to exit gingerly. Tell her it's over and that you think you should break up. That's it... Don't overcomplicate it.

What is her Pornstar name?

If my fap rating goes above an 8 out of 10 then I would suggest to keep doing her favours till she sleeps with you.

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They are all the same, and that fact that you're seeking out a woman like this would only suggest that you have several self-esteem issues of your own. I don't mean to judge you man, but I think you're only considering whats on the surface and not what this woman going to come with once the high you get from her looks wheres off. What could she possibly offer you, that another women with way less baggage couldn't? Thats not rhetorical.

The game men and women play is the Time Vs Pussy game..

Men want to get the pussy without giving up that much of their time and women want to get as much of a mans time before having to give up pussy. Thats the battle..

Your time is your vagina.. Now, how do you treat a girl who just lets you fuck her whenever you want, who just completely lets you use and abuse her vagina any time all the time and she's always around to fuck you when you need her, requiring nothing in return? You treat her like a "hoe"(excuse my french)" You may even go so far as to let your friends sleep with her. And you'll NEVER take her serious because she isn't even showing that she takes herself serious.

Well thats exactly how a woman treats a man that lets her abuse his time. They use him for his time and this discard him once his service is over. They may even let their friends abuse his time with a line like " Can you pick up my friend from the airport? "..

Once you begin to guard your time with the same vigor that a woman guards her vagina you will be a lot more successful.

Right now she sees you as a hoe.. A time hoe.. So you're her little time-slut and you'll be made completely aware of that once your job is done. It happens all the time.

You said you want to show her that you're worth more.. But you aren't showing it. You're showing the exact opposite and so long as you continue to do what you're now doing for her how could she possible see you as anything other than what your actions are reflecting.

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