In her work, Second interviews many women from diverse walks of life. Throughout all accounts she shows that women whose fathers were absent in their lives felt insecure and un-grounded; not sure of where they belonged. They were emotionally unavailable, usually having unsatisfying and volatile relationships. They would "test" the men in their lives, constantly focusing on the flaws in them, starting fights, expecting them to walk out at any given moment, while at the same time looking for excuses to walk out on the relationship themselves. They had higher anxiety levels, and were quicker to experience the debilitating symptoms of depression.

Second's work is prodigious in scope because it renders absurd the entire feminist notion that "female independence" from the psychological, emotional and intellectual influences of men, is the ultimate key to their freedom, happiness and overall piece of mind.

On page 212 second describes what could only be construed as the underlying psychological motivations of the "converted" lesbian mind. Of their fatherless experiences she write...

",,, It seems that the less masculine attention they get in childhood, the more they'd seem to identify with and imitate men, keeping their feelings hidden, preferring casual teasing and unemotional banter to the intimacies of feminine soul bearing. "

In other words, when a girl is denied her fathers love she may grow up to be more masculine in temperament and behavior. She may grow up to become the very thing she's been missing, because a loving father solidifies and affirms his little girls feminine identity. If that conditional masculine love is not there, she may compensate by becoming masculine herself.

It ain't rocket science.

Sup. Had a SERIOUS question. Yes...EMPHASIS ! Anywho been literally throwing myself into sets just cause of the feeling tht I've been getting tht makes me have a lack of motivation due to this frustration about not getting to where I want to be ← Rant sentence.
Still keep going in this talkative state even if everything being brought up is random, not weird or creepy, but, random. Lately tho been running into a lot of women who are really hard testers? How hard? Well for example, having candy being thrown at you with cacling (may or may not be spelled right) laughter.Thts kind of an example, but, hopefully any bruvs readin' this can understand where im going with this.
Also another example would be relentless name calling with obnoxious laughter. Tht was actually a better example than the candy one. Lke dnt understand how some congruence test lke this could be tht real tho... lke bloop . BLOOP BLOOP!
Its cool to get tests cause you know her sexual attraction just goes up when you pass them, but , why tests lke these tht are tht hard? Lke it's almost as if they dnt want you to pass them by making them impossible to pass. Sinn called these type of women tht give hard tests "Self Proclaimed Bitches". Makes sense.
Yea just wanted to know if anyone has dealt with women giving tests lke these before or wonder why they test really hard? Its lke they're doing everythin to makebsure they don't become sexually attracted to you.