Last night, i was with a girl. I knew she was into me. I went for the escalation and it started off great.

All of the sudden.

She put a hold on everything.

She told me that she was insecure about her body. A statement i have not heard before while in bed.

I said something along the lines of, "I look at people for who they really are and don't judge over things like that."

My question to you guys - Did i say the right in in a scenario like this, or was there a better way i could of gone about it?

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This is one of two things:
1. comfort not being built as quickly as attraction. Note that this is preferable to the reverse. If this is the issue, you should suggest you take a breath and then build comfort. Do things like make contact, exchange stories, validate her opinions, etc. This will require out of bed actions.
2. seeking of validation. Girl is naked for the first time, and worried about what you think. Validate her by telling her you think she's beautiful and that you're really into her. Don't say you don't judge girls based on looks. They'll either feel like they're not fully appreciated or that you're full of it. Girls want to know that you think they're attractive.

" What? You're crazy.. I love your body" - Then proceed to escalate.

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