So I have been thinking lately about dating woman and as someone with slight OCD some disturb me. Here are some examples, obviously there are more, but if anyone has any information about these that can help me explore into other areas than my desired it would help.

The virgin - You meet a girl around 18-20 who is either an ugly duckling and now turning hot, she's the girl you would marry. You are her first love, shes never fucked any other guys, shes pure. - Desired

As I am now 25 I am now moving on from this and finding it hard to find someone. I think that alot of my friends didnt go to college therefore just met a girl at that age and now with her/babies/marriage etc...

Girls 21+ who have been in LTR - These are ok, but if you go out with one that has had a 3 year relationship and my longest is 1 year. Always seem to get back into relationships fast.

Girls 25+ - Why are they still single? I've seen alot of girls at college do the most disgraceful things, and although you shouldnt judge on a girls past. I have seen girls such guys dicks infront of everyone at college. Would I want to date this? Are these girls just sluts? Cheats? whatever? One example friends the TV show. Rachael, monica, phaebie all sex alot of guys. I just don't find this appealing that my potential future wife has slept with 10 + guys. It is kinda off putting.

Thoughts?

So, let's take each case separately.

The virgin- So, she's 18-20 yo and she's a virging. Dude, don't you think that's weird? I mean, either she's ugly or really religious. Even if she's not hot but just cute enough, you really think you would be the first guy around her? If she's hot or, as you say, turning hot and she's still a virgin, 90% of the times there is something wrong. In the other 10% of the time you may have met the "perfect" woman for you if that's what you like. In any case, remember that even if you take her virginity, it doesn't mean she'll stay with. Girls usually stay with those they lost their virginity to for a while, but then leave them to find new and different experiences. Of course, if you are amazing in bed this won't happen likely but still can happen. A girl that had sex already with someone else and then experiences the best sex of her life with you, she's gonna be less likely to leave you.
That's my opinion.

The 21+ girl- So, she has been in a longer relationship than any of yours... What is the problem? My longest relationship was 3 months, but i never had problems with girls that had 1+ years of relationship. There is no problem. The same rules of the game that you use for girls that don't usually are in relationships, apply to those with relationships in the past as well.

The 25+ girl- Mmmmh... So you don't like the fact that they had sex with a lot of guys? Then I'm afraid to give you some bad news: the majority of the girls that you have met and you'll meet in your life have probably slept with at least 15 guys, if not more, by the age of 25. They'll probably never say it openly, but the did.
You are disgusted by it? Why? Think about it this way: you love having sex, right? Everyone does. Remember these words: EVERYONE loves to have sex, especially the girls because they can easily have multiple orgasms where each lasts four times our orgasm. So, if you would be a girl, wouldn't you love to get those orgasms? Of course you would. And they do. What you saw in college is just a piece of a girl's sex life and if you say that it is disgusting, you are a hypocrite for just one reason: you would do the same and the fact that you are posting questions on this forum proves it.




These are my opinions and I hope I fully answered your question and at the same time helped you.
Just one more tip: sometimes it's useful to change our way of thinking into the one of a girl in order to understand her.

Have a nice day!