Guys, have you figured out a way to deal with ambivalent behavior?

I have troubles with this girl being in a rs. For two weeks she's been constantly talking about doing things together.
"Have you watched this series?" "Are you in a hurry after class?" "Maybe we see each other this weekend? Are you free?" "We'll soon have to meet, I have a present for you"

Where as the only time I set up a date... ...ended up with me calling her at 6pm, asking when the rehearsal takes place, where i found out she just returned home. (Of course I told her I'd meet another girl in that case instead who just asked me to hang out - which was actually true)

I also found out she made up having a present. Since everyone told me I'd have to set it up myself (and she mentioned meeting on the weekend earlier) on saturday I told her I'd drop by her place picking something up from her SPAM and asked her, when she'd be home. She told me she'd be home by 2 and asked me if I wanted to join them to play some basketball. I asked when and who and she told me about 8 to 9 people were going at 3. Finally at her place I found out no one was specifically asked to go play and she finally managed to find 1 person plus we convinced the SPAM to come along.

"Words vs. actions" Verbally it's almost like she chases me (she'd talk about 2-4 things we'd have to do in the future every time we meet) but her actions say "no" or at least "it's gonna be complicated".

What's your way to deal with this sort of behavior?

This entire post is a bit confusing bro. Its not as clear as it would have to be for you to get the advice you're looking for.

In total, how many times have you seen this girl?

Where did you meet her and how?

And what types of contact have you guys had when you met and/or hung out?

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