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PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2015 6:44 pm 
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took this girl out for a first date, we got on really well. I took her hand lead her to the restaurant, held the door, got hair chair, was always leading and trying to remain alpha. We had great conversation, she was laughing, playing with her hair touching me all signs she was interested. We went to the bar after and had drinks and talked for a further few hours. I took her hand on the way back and we made out ( so far so good)

After the date she text me straight away saying I'm home now just in bed :) had a really great time tonight thanks, with only one kiss, less than normal?, I text her back the following day and we exchanged a few texts over the next few days. She then asked me when we were going mini golf (something we talked about on the date) I said I had plans for the weekend but next week and asked what her scheduled is like? she said she was extremely busy that week as she has 2 netball games and work commitments but she will see if she can re arrange something so we can go, I said ok let me know I could possibly do next Saturday?

This was 3 days ago and I'm yet to receive a reply? She's never been the fastest at replying but I feel she is interested and I know she is very busy, otherwise why would she ask me out again and the texts she sends me are long and detailed 15-20 lines, we have no mutual friends so I assumed if she didn't want to see or hear from me she just wouldn't of text me after date 1. is she just waiting to find a day she can do then text me or is she playing games or maybe lost interest? The text I sent didn't really require a reply till she had figured out her plans but I thought she would of done this by now? I don't want to text her again and seem needy I think I will wait for her to come to me it would just be interesting to hear other opinions?

I Don't consider my self amazing pua before you start annihilating me with loads of things im sure I should of done differently, although you are welcome to leave constructive criticism and what your advice would be for me to do? I assume I should move on...


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2015 8:02 pm 
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It sounds promising. When stuff like this happens you should always assume the most positive interpretation of the situation. Maybe she's just busy. Maybe she didn't receive your message for technical reasons (it happens). Text her again soon, "how does it look this weekend?".


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2015 9:21 pm 
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Just shoot her a text before weekend and ask what her schedule is for the weekend. If she doesn't reply or flakes, she's just not that interested. But from what you've written i think you've got nothing to worry about. It's very possible she's just that busy. You got this, man. Let us know how it went.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2015 10:08 pm 
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I'd call her tomorrow if I were you and say " Hey, I'm just calling to check on your plans for this weekend. Whats it looking like? "

She'll probably contact you in a couple days, but I'd suggest calling her over texting her if you want to reach out.

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