This girl was my gf some years ago.

I have to say Ive been bad to her many times. Not by treating her bad but I dumped her for my former gf.

After 3 years of that, I met her and we had sex. Only once, then I stopped seeing her or calling her, and she tried calling me, texting me, etc. She tried for a month, while I was fucking another girl. She obviously realized I was ignoring her.

But well after that month of ignoring her, I reconnected with her again and we fucked a couple of times. We went out (not like dates, more like just having walks and stuff).

After some weeks, things started to fade. I flaked her a couple of times and she did as well. She wasnt calling or texting like before. I tried to arrange a meeting (I still want her as a Fbuddy) but we both flaked in a couple of opportunities.

So I stopped talking to her and stuff. I called her last weekend but she didnt answer so I just left it there (just one call).

Yesterday she talked to me on facebook. We were talking good, she told me she was going to pass by my street later after classes. I didnt say anything about it.
After some hours of that conversation I texted her and she replied. I asked her if she still has her PRO camera but she said she didnt. So I texted her: "hey why dont you come to see me and lets have a walk" . She replied with "awwwww im sorry I wish I could, but Im really tired and I want to get home to eat my soup haha"

So I replied with "Ohhh and youre not inviting me soup! Ok ! I wont be a gentleman again and youre a bad ex!". But she didnt reply. So I sent her another text saying "take care when youre going home" (this was honest since she knows I used to do that when we were a coouple) . Still no response.

Id like to have her as a Fbuddy again. But maybe I was bad to her? I mean, seems like she talked to me out of the blue and I thought well maybe she wants to see me. I dont doubt about her being tired because she works . then studies at college . then goes home at late night.

Any ideas?

Why are you making this hard for everyone? - especially yourself?

Just tell her it would be good to see her again and arrange a date that works for you both.

Am I being stupid or would that be too drama free for you?

To be honest, ex's turned into FB's rarely work out and are always seem to be in damage control. You should see women as awesome people, I hope you change your attitude towards girls.

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Duuude chill out.

Im not wanting any drama. Thing is that is a mistery for me why shes acting that way. Not sure if shes interested or just go next. Its not that I dont have any other girl around.

What intrigues me is her behaviour.

I dont get the part about "my attitude"

"Just tell her it would be good to see her again and arrange a date that works for you both."

We get it, you keep mentioning you have sex with millions of other girls. Your status around here has now doubled:

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Bro..

Just let her go man.

The only reason your'e having a desire to see her again is because you think its possible she is getting away. Its obvious you're not having much interest i her. She seems to have low self-esteem so she just lets you get away with it. Which is what it is.. I've been there several times in my life but you learn to just let them go. Its usually a case of them just liking you so much and hoping things change but we all know they never do.

Sounds like you're just out on women and you want to get laid again so you're taking the easy way out.

I say let her go.

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duude, theres a difference between millions and 3, cmon, Im not that bad at math .

Still dont get the harsh comments. Im sorry I cant be as cool as you. Im sorry. oh.

Whatever, read your post about online game. Nice.

Thanks, that is a response Id actually was waiting for.

You're the one that told me to 'chill out' and got defensive when I thought my reply was pretty good and not argumentative.

Eddie.Fews got what I was trying to say but articulated better for you. So essentially +1 to what Eddie said.

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