Hey all!

Glad I decided to finally take part of this forum!

A little background about me: 20 year old student in San Diego, involved in a social fraternity and other organizations.

I have honestly only kissed one girl my entire life, and she was super ****ed up anyways, so its safe to say that I really have never had a girl or anything of my own and yes, I am still a complete virgin. This year as a Sophomore in college, I knew had to change that. It has gotten to the point where I have literally started becoming depressed since I have not been with any woman yet. I decided to take a chance and rush a fraternity and I am super stoked that I did! I have already met a ton of people and girls, which is awesome, and it leads into my set of problems I am having.

See, fraternity parties are awesome and yes, usually there are many more girls than guys, but the problem I am having is with approaching these woman. See, I just joined this fraternity, and although a lot of the guys know these girls, as a new member, I dont. Question is, how would I go to approach a random sorority girl or group of girls at a party without being a creep? I was going to base off the conversation maybe about her sorority, her school, her dorm etc. But the problem I am having is CONTINUING conversation with women, I usually end up at the awkward silence point, where I honestly run out of things to talk about. I want to be known as being an outgoing gentleman, but I feel that being too outgoing could make me a creep?

I always used the typical, " Hey my names XXXXX, hows it goin?". Should that be followed by a compliment? Another fear I have is by saying a compliment, I may come off as a creep.

My ultimate goal is to honestly just get laid and find a girl that I can actually pursue a relationship with. I feel like approaching a college girl at a frat party is much different than with adults in a club. I know that a lot of these girls are down to meet with guys, but its just that I need to establish a solid framework of WHAT I want to say or talk about.

My fraternity has an exchange WEDNESDAY with a sorority, so I am trying to clarify my game plan prior to meeting these girls.

Thanks guys! Wish me luck!