First of all, I'm sorry if i posted this topic to the wrong forum section.

Okay so here's situation.
I've met this girl couple days ago when we we're on drinks with our mutual friends (couple if relevant), it
went fine but i didn't wanted to start online-attack too early.
I've added her on FB after our second coincidental ( ) drinks just to set the date.
We were chatting a little bit and the date was set up. The date, normal without any silence or phone checking.
So normal i got the number and we went on 2nd date after which I kissed her.
I was happy cause this seemed to be the first not-one night stand relationship, we we're texting via phone and saw each other on our "double date" drinks with friends when one night she decided to go home alone (i usually drove her).
The next day I got text where she was saying that she wants to slow things down (kill me, that she was attracted to me at first but because from all the pressure that she gets from one of our mutual friends (and she didn't like the idea that i told him that we kissed after our second date :S ) we should be friends first and then what happens happens. I would and did consider this as a "next girl please" situation but then i started to get texts from her, they've all been in my house on drinks, and yesterday i chatted with her all afternoon, the texts i get from her are not "haha" or "ok" type but 3-5 freaking lines long.
It's obvious that i like her, but can anyone tell me what the hell is going on? Should i wait for this girl or am i not understanding something?
Again sorry if wrong section and for my english

I don't know what it is OP but this was a really tough read... Like, maybe I need another coffee but I strugged to get through that. English your first language?

It's in the wrong section but I'll move it.

I sort of think she's probably not too into you... but I think this is salvageable... I think you can turn this around with simple escalation whenever you're out with her. I wouldn't discuss "going slow" or the relationship. I would simply escalate and be physical.

I'd also stop being a gossipy fish-wife. 10 bucks says that's what started this mess... She heard from a friend that she kissed you - so the word is going around.

Keep your damn mouth shut and things will go smoother for you in the future.