So im leaving to the military in june 2 or maybe before. So im trying to pick up as many girls as possible. But i feel like now that im better i should talk to the one that got away and see what happens


In high school my freshman year there was this girl (we'll call her Mary). All the guys wanted her. 10 in literally all areas but i dont think she realizes it.

I was in detention one time and this guy started asking me about mary and i told him she seemed cool. Turns out he was friends with her and texted her saying that he was going to introduce us. So i ended up meeting her in the lunch line and i was terribly shy then so i always said something really stupid like "its nice out today". So about a month after this one of my friends (ex-friend now. you'll see why) decides its a good idea to ask her whether she likes me or not. She says no and then he comes to find me brings me to her and says that she said no. I was confused because i didnt ask him to ask her and pretty mad that him asking her that pretty much made he make up her mind there. I later found out that he messaged her on facebook asking her if she would go out with him.

We ended up in the same class (its a class that has the same students all 4 years) .I didnt talk to her in that class because i figured it was done. There mustve been something about me she liked because she Friended me on facebook and we started chatting. We got closer and i got into that dreaded friendzone. That summer she invited me to hang out with her for her birthday at the beach. There were other people there also including her family. I got there a little early and was chatting with her mom, dad and grandma (parents really seem to like me for some reason). We played some volleyball and chilled and all that. i was sitting with some guys and she calls me over to sit with her and her girl friends (one of which i also wanted). Im sitting there feeling awkward probably looking awkward and everything. I don't know any of these people and they all know each other. It starts drizzling a little and she gets a cover tells me "come closer" and puts it around us. Her girl friends are just smiling and staring. i see her parents smiling. So we chilled a little more and later we are alone again. So she's sitting there on a bench looking shy and im standing saying stupid things until i get picked up.

After that we text a lot and we start getting closer. Sophomore year a new girl came and befriended her and would always interrupt us from having conversations. We stopped talking as much and got a BF (a guy in our class) but would still talk to me. I got a GF about a month later and one day she came with me to class because i had to tell my teacher i was helping her with something. The whole class was kinda like "oooooh" because i was a qiuet guy and i guess it was weird. But i saw mary staring at me straight in the eye with a blank look. I didnt think anything of it. but that was the last day we really talked. I broke up with the girl a month later. near the end of sophomore year i messaged her saying hey and she said hey. I asked her why we stopped talking and she didnt respond. This was my Pride phase so i said whatever. We didnt talk until the beginning of senior year. She came up to me asking me which college i was going to. i told her Columbia and she started asking me about what i was ogin got major in and all that. I asked was she askign this for a projec tnad she said no. SOmething came over me so i said to her "Look, im just a broke teenager but when i get some money would you like to go on a date with me" to which she said yes. I later dropped that class to do another one and we never spoke again. This was bout 3 years ago.

I saw a mutual friend about a month ago and told him to tell her i still want to take her out. her told her and said she smiled really hard. So should i message her on facebook and see whats up or just let it go?



TL;DR VERSION
Met a girl, Got shut down. Got friendzoned, got close, got a GF, didnt talk. Asked on date and got it but never took her. 3 years later should i take her?

You seem far too invested, but what kind of question is this?

What do you have to lose?

Say some funny shit though; don't just message her and say " hey ".. Actually say some funny shit.

That'll open the door.

One of my favorite lines is " damn girl.. you make me wanna knit both of us matching sweaters. "

That line has always killed for me.

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