Hey guys.

Last Sunday, I approach a Korean girl at park.

She was having her lunch, I approach her, told her that she was cute, introduced myself, and started talking to her. She was ok with that. A little bit uncomfortable at beginning because she was eating.

I did some kino. Give her a side hug.

Another thing that I did was the routine The Cube with her. I don't know why, but at some point when I was doing the cold reading, explaining her answers to her, I could see one tear in her eye. I think this could be a good signal that I touched her deeply.

After a time, I invited her to go to a coffee with me. At first she refused, but a couple minutes later she told that she could go with me to have a coffee, but she wouldn't buy one to herself. We went to a Starbucks store near of us. I bought my coffee and asked for a glass of water to her (she asked me to ask one to her). The glass of water was for free.

We took a sit and she was explaining something personal to me. So, because was really noise there, I told her to go to another place more quite. She agreed with that, and we moved to another place not far from there.

In this new place, a square, I took a sit on a bench with place to hold my backs. And she took a site on the bench in front of me. I told her to sit at my side because of would be more comfortable to her. She then moved to the bench that I was. We talked for 10 minutes more, or so. We exchange numbers, and she had to leave to go to her church. She prayed with me before she leaves.

Six hours later I sent a text to her: "Hello dreamy girl. Was cool to meet you. Let me know when you will have your day off during the week. I really would like know more about your dreams. Take care. Rod."

She never answer this message back. I didn't send another message to her... until yesterday.

Yesterday, at morning time, she add me to her WeChat application. I got the invitation and accepted her to my contact list. Eight hours later, I send another text to her: "Hey. How are you? Do you already know when you will have your day off? Have a great day."

So, she answered back three messages in a row:

1ª. "When I have a day off. they changed my off again but i worked today extra shift" (sic);
2ª. "so don't know when" (sic);
3ª. "i can pray for you but i don't think we meet.. i am a bit busy to study" (sic).

We talked for at last one hour and twenty minutes at the park. Around twenty minutes at the Starbucks, and maybe 10 more at the square.

She saw me greeting some people that I know on the street. And we I did this at the second time, she commented with me that I know a lot of people. By the way, was two girls. First one Japanese girl with her boyfriend, and the second one, one Philippine girl alone.

What I should answer back? Thanks.

I would say she's not interested.

I wouldn't text back anything. Move onto the next foreign tourist! (Just havin fun with ya, dude)...

I was so excited for you up until I started reading all that religious stuff.

Are you sure you want to pursue something like this? by the way the approach was really good.

The only criticism I have to offer here is with the initial text. I would have left the "I really would like know more about your dreams" out. It's a hint of over-investment and beating around the bush.

For future reference you don't have to have a day off to meet someone. I'm busy as fuck sometimes but that doesn't mean I can't squeeze 1-2 hours in for a date. Besides, people make plans with their friends when they're off work.

Anyway, she doesn't seem all that interested, so text her that: "You, me, coffee, Starbucks. Tomorrow at 20:00". You got nothing to lose but don't hold your breath.

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