So ive been at this for about a year. Ive been talking to girls both in person and online. I would start with small things and work my way up. But whenever i would try to advance id get rejected. I tried being straight forward, escalating at a good pace and escalating slow but none of those texhniques worked. I tried not to let it discourage me but after a lot of rejection i feel pretty bad.

How long does this take to get at least 1 girl?

I also responded to another post you had and I will respond to this one too. It took me several months to really hit the ground running and the reason being is because of anxiety and also I needed to study everything and soak it all up, but it's definitely been some years since then.

I think maybe you just haven't found the right techniques yet, you have to mix them all together and create your own form of it..that goes good for you. There's a lot of techniques that I have for flirting and things, also one of the key elements is not to let things get you down and still know that you can do whatever you want.

One of things I see most out of all the individuals who do this is that they lack the understanding and skills to make a connection with a female and show her what she desires, become what she desires and make that desire within her.

You create that chemistry by doing certain techniques that are apparently a secret to so many and it's a thing that requires much practice and really it's never fully mastered because there's always something new to learn in it.

In the end you don't want to just be a friend or someone she just talks to...you want to be the guy she wants in her life, the guy she desires as a lover. Also being that someone she can share her desires and interests, someone who listens, but also someone who can get her all hot and bothered. Pretty much a friend who is and has to be lover.

It's about confidence and running game anywhere and everywhere...little accomplishments are best where you see yourself evolving and just having fun instead of placing bricks on your shoulders and feel like your falling down every single time.

I am open and willing to help all individuals achieve things, all I ask for is details of things and detailed situations that they need help in and basically where they are at and what they need help in. I need specifics though so I can give specifics and not do this stuff half ass...if you need help I'm your man.

Just hit me back with a PM on any and all questions and I will give you the best advice hands down. I've just got back from a long break and I want to help individuals progress into what they are aiming for and really think about what you are aiming for and want out of all of this. This game isn't just a game, it's a way of life.

you should not measure your success based on the amount of girls you get.
see pick up does not only teaches you how to attract girls but also gives you the fundamental
mindset in order to achieve anything in any field.

anyway back to your question

it can take from 3 minutes to 6 years
what have you learned from those rejections?
did you kino the girl to obvious that she felt the tension and made her feel uncomfortable?

seems like you are doing a good job regardless of not getting results yet.
at least you are putting this to the test, seems like you just need to calibrate the amount of kino and know when is the right time to escalate and move it forward. but that comes with practice

it took me months of going in and doing crash and burn to start getting make outs
from there it didn't took me long to start closing the deal.

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I was just about to reply to the question in the title, when I read the post itself... I've always been introvert, bullied in school and definitely not one of the "cool" guys. But despite that, girls were still interested in me even though I ALWAYS fucked everything up due to neediness, and lack of knowledge about how to handle girls. So it's beyond my imagination how you can still struggle with getting your first girl.

Here is one tip that has helped me during my life: Ignore the girls who don't like you, and spend your energy one those who do. (That was actually my mom's tip to me).

Here is one from me: Quit pickup for a while and just try to socialize, try to be "normal" around girls, don't hit on them, just befriend them. Do this until you know how to talk to girls like a friend, and to build trust. Once you know that you have a good basis and can start adding some sexual tension to your interactions, and being pickup into your life again.

Feel like answering this cause it made my brain poop out ideas n words to type.
ANYWAYS, your question made me receive the enormous feeling you're wondering how to get girls n them comfortable with your
touch/kiss/escalation smoothly to something sexual. Make this quick

1) Move your escalation sexually more n more.
Don't try to keep on regions lke on the arm /shoulder/hip area by touchin it lke 15 times. Always keep moving forward to get tht kiss/sex . Many on here recommended me to the dicarlo escalation ladder which leads me to 2 .

2) understand sexual comfort. Once she lets you or comfortable touching her hair or face in an intimate way or just doing it will lead something more sexual. SEXUAL COMFORT was something really cool learning btw so yea check tht out.

N #3) Recognize her "signals" to tell u she's ready to be kissed. Getting extremely close was a HUGE THING for me to realize. Close lke whispering in her ear close/ intimately close lke facin eachother with legs touching standing. Also if she's leaning in for u to whisper in her ear.

Some goods there tho. Helped me realize when girls were comfortable w me when in sets.

How many women have you approached in this one year?

Time means nothing, it's about what you've been doing with the time.

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+1 this.

I'd also add that you are asking a question that is also affecting your belief system and that flows into your reality. You are telling yourself that you aren't good with girls yet, so the next girl is going to reject you because you've told yourself that you're not good at getting them. You're putting yourself into a cycle of failure.

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