I've been steadily going out and collecting numbers and f-closes here and there, but I've got a long-standing game flaw. I am needy.

Case in point, I got a girl's phone number yesterday and we had a text conversation and she even asked me what time she should call the following day--I've spent the whole day worrying about whether or not she'd call. In fact, that was my first thought when I woke up in the morning. My second thought was because of worrying whether or not another girl would call who I've been bantering back and forth with and even gone out on a date with.

What are some resources I can read/use that can help me eliminate neediness? I've tried everything from anti-neediness affirmations to emotional disconnection to general self-control on my own, but nothing seems to work.

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you can learn all the NLP, tapping, Sedona method, meditation...

But becoming actually a busy guy and focusing on stuff that isn't girls is a sure fire way to cure this. Like, I flake girls all time because I would rather focus on other stuff. I know that kinda sounds arrogant of me to say but I used to be like you

I spent every night reading material and going out trying it. If I got flakes I could go crazy and call the girl a cunt for flaking me.

Fast forward in time, many flings later and the ego is more humble... I have been now focusing on financial freedom for a long time now and this is constantly on my mind. Soon as a girl becomes a little trouble i just don't even chase anymore. Ironically this what drives some girls crazy and THEY become the needy ones.

I wish you could fake it till you make it but this kind of thing needs to be lived for real.

but I completely understand that PU could be a priority for you at this very moment in time so I don't advise you to take a break from game unless you happy with your skill set. But maybe when you make that evolution in the future, you will know what I mean when you get there.

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Do what I did..

Everytime I got the number of a chick I really liked and felt anxious or needy about when to call or what to text.. I'd delete her from my phone. And move on.. Until I learned to not make a big deal of those situations.

Delete it..And trust in your ability to meet another woman just as good.

Its extreme, and it worked for me.

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That's pretty crazy but I can see it being effective.

Would you do the same for money and throw it away? I guess maybe that's why very wealthy people give to charity

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Honestly, just don't even carry your phone on you all the time if you're not leaving your house. It's a bad addiction and you'll keep thinking about it (and EVERY time you check it you're reminded that they STILL haven't contacted you). Plus I find that getting high and enjoying myself or hanging with friends distracts me from that neediness.

If money was making me feel anxious and needy? lol..I'm not sure how money applies..

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course it does

Unless you're some Saudi prince?

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Lol unsure of the question.. When I begin feeling anxious and needy about "not" having enough money you mean? yea I give it away.

" The less you have the more important it is for you to give - lest the little you have will be taken from you." - @EddieFews on twitter.

So if you're asking what i think you're asking, yes.. The same with money.

I've found the people who are the most selfish, have the least... because they "don't have enough" - People who are a bit more giiving, tend to have "more to give" .. I was on both ends.. When I started giving, i found myself running into more opportunity to make money.

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