| I'm 25, and decided to pop into the night club where I knew there'd be mainly young ones, as they're called. I even felt like it was a bit unsporting of me, since I shouldn't be after random drunken sex, and actually trying to work on game.
After a half an hour or so of pointlessly moving around the crouded dance floor getting rejected by 20 yr olds, some girl came up to me and said(pointing to her friend), "she's in love with you". I replied "are you sure it's not you who's in love with me?" She then said with a big frown "What?", which lead me to think that she either thought I misheard her, or clearly didn't want me flirting with her and only the friend. There was no way of knowing that the friend was in to me, aside from the fact this girl said it. She then said the same again referring to her friend who looked detached and aloof. I initiated with 'the friend' handing my glass to the other girl. Usually when this happens to me, I get the impression it's just the girls playing jokes on each other, but this girl was receptive to dancing straight away, and as I was trying to work some cool dance moves I could clearly see that she just wanted to make out straight away. We did this quite intensley for quite a while moving over to the wall. I probably just got this one because of my looks.
Although I hadn't even spoke to her, I sensed she was a bit drunk... perhaps even too drunk to be able to get her out there, which may seem ironic. Her friend who seemed to be looking after her came over and started talking to her. As she started to take her away, she stummbled and nearly fell. I said "gee, what's she been drinking?". "Everything" she said and then beckoned me to go away. So I don't know if there's anything I could done to get laid with her in this situation?? Not that it would be to anyway, if she was as drunk as what she could of been.
Later I spotted another girl, away from the dance-floor who playing with her hair. As I passed by, I said "stop playing with your hair, it's distracting me". As I leaned in closer again, she said "I'm looking for a job".
Me "I don't know if you're in the right place"
Her "No, I'm looking for a job as a bar tender"
Me "So it's business as well as pleasure tonight?"
Her "I worked in another night club for a year and a half, and now I'm looking for a new job"
At this stage I could only anticipate myself saying sort of typical stuff about the subject of bar tending, and all I could think to myself was, how there's so many funny/flirty things to say about that, that I can't think of right now. Ever feel that way? It's like you put pressure on yourself to be able to say the perfect line all the time. I guess the moral is to just keep talking about the subject for a while(even if the ice isn't quite broken yet), and that it might lead into something. It was also a bit awkward in the sense that my hands weren't occupied and she was quite a bit shorter than me so I was bending down. There was also nothing to lean on nearby. I couldn't really tell if she engaged with me because she was interested in me, or because she thought she'd be able to handle any 'come ons'
Then, struggling to be spontaneous, I asked "how old are you?". She said "21". Struggling again I said, "are you with friends?" Her "yeah"
She was neither giving a red or green light.I then left as I didn't know what I was doing. But I reckon that if I stayed, she would have been willing to answer more pointless questions.
But are there any devices which I can fall back on for when my mind goes blank like this.
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