If you've been seeing a girl for months and suddenly she starts taking alot longer to reply to texts and calls what do you do? Freeze her out, address it, what?

Neither. I move onto the next girl. There's no reason for tactics in these situations.

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I just dealt with this over the last 3 weeks or so.

There's a girl I was seeing regularly 1-2x weekly as a hook up. I posted some pictures of me at a fancy shindig with a girl 10 years younger than her. Next thing I knew, I'd get texts from her saying hi without wanting to meet up. I'd ask to meet up and she wouldn't respond for a few days. In the past I would have lost my shit, but instead, I just figured she had stuff going on. Today she messaged me and asked if she could stop by for a bit. After I got out of my head and started having fun again, it was Business As Usual.

If you have had a legit connection, just be the man, assume it's something on her side and it'll work itself out. Spend every extra minute she allows you either gaming more girls, or working on yourself and your purpose. Those are really the only options that are worth a damn.

Freeze her out, give her a taste of her own medicine, be a man with options.

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Worst thing you can do is to call her out on it... it's happening, her justifying why isn't going to change anything but make you look needy. She could easily just lie about it anyway... read what is happening rather than needing her words.

Like others have said just get out of your head and have fun, if she likes you she'll come back.

If she's seeing another guy then let it be and meet more women. There are no words you can say or put on a screen that will change what's already happened (she's lost attraction, messing around with someone else, playing games etc)

I am actually in the same situation at the moment myself, I made the mistake of asking her what was going on and nearly blew my chance. Don't make the same mistake I did. You'll immediately give her all the power.