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I don't agree with everything in this post. It's more tailored towards the dummy that is good with women. Smart guys like to expand their knowledge and have a higher potential then go with the flow characters.
To the OP...
The failure doesn't change anything. And falls into an insanity loop of repeating the same failed actions over and over.
The success reviews his interactions and results then seeks the knowledge to fix his weak points, and applies the new knowledge in real word situations. Keeping what works discarding what doesn't and seeking more knowledge to improve on what he has built.
With this method you have to define what goal equals success to you because using this method there can almost be no end to the improvements on your success.
Lets look at a few goals. If success means just getting your dick wet then finding a proven system of techniques and internalizing them will afford you some pussy.
Just pure techniques will get you laid, but then the side affects of this. You become cold and detached. Yo begin to itemize women and the long term results is an inability to form a real human connect, or ever be in a true relationship with women. You effectively kill love and will find yourself empty on the inside.
This is why the community is full of narcissist and sociopaths. Being this way will get you laid with certain women consistently, and people who don't believe that there are such things as different psychologies can think all women are the same and reflect the need to be a narcissist or sociopath as the one and true personality trait that will get you women.
Lets say the goal is to just get a stable GF. You can throw most of the get laid advice you find in the PU community out the fucking window.
You will have to be internally stable in order to do something like this in a healthy way.
Lets say the goal is to get a harem of women that you keep around you to sleep with and you might pick a LTR from the flock.
It requires a different set of skills to do this than just the first two.
Maybe your goal is a particular woman who is a public figure to have a long term relationship with.
It requires a different set of skills than the first three.
The point is regardless of what success is to you:
The failure doesn't change anything. And falls into an insanity loop of repeating the same failed actions over and over.
The success reviews his interactions and results then seeks the knowledge to fix his weak points, and applies the new knowledge in real word situations. Keeping what works discarding what doesn't and seeking more knowledge to improve on what he has built.
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