I hear conflicting information on here about whether a woman's tests will decrease or stop as she gets to know you better, OR if she will continue to test/increase her tests.

On one hand, i've heard that you pass them, they decrease or stop, then you are doing well with your girl.

On the other hand, even if you pass them, a girl will continue to test the same way to see if you are still that guy.

How do you know whether you are passing them or failing them, if a woman will always test her man?

If she keeps revisiting a certain test over months, is she trying to keep making sure your that strong guy, OR is she waiting for you to pass?

and another question to add to this guys, would be, at what point during a woman's tests can you call her out on them? for instance if she is testing you to make you insecure or something, and then you say "ok with the games, we have talked about this" and show a bit of anger, to preserve your self respect, is this ok?

Examples of these Tests ?

could be anything

from asking you to hold their tampons/purses, even though you have denied like 5 times in the past, yet she will still do it

to vague compliments of another guy

to you never want to spend time with me!!!

to "i could tell you this, but you wouldn't be able to handle it!"

Yes, eventually she dies.

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Oh...dorkley...i remember you. In your gfs case I don't think so as this keeps going on right? These aren't tests, more like questions and disrespectful immature comments. But as I keep telling you that's just the nature of your chick and the relationship. But damn...she's still doing this stuff?

In my experience, no. Then again, I've only been in one LTR so far, so what do I know.

In "The way of the superior man", David Deida also says they never stop though. Better to always be ready for the worst, I guess.

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Not only call her out on it. tease the shit out of her for trying to pull it on you.
The undeniable truth!

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To be honest, once every GREAT while, like 4 months or so, she'll try a small power play. She'll also accuse me of something every once in awhile too, which sometimes I am guilty of. But by and large all the crap is gone. Then when I call her out, she would basically say "you have all the control in this relationship! I didn't mean it I just feel like you do!"

does that tell you anything? It seems like she will say things as a power play because she knows she cares more than I do

and what is crazy is, respect is now paramount for the last year with her and myself, and the sex is off the chain good lol.

No. Never.

They actually come a lot more intelligently the more she gets to know you. Its her way of keeping you strong. You should want that. Some guys want an easy girl and an easy ride. I personally prefer my girl keeping me on my toes. It keeps my attraction for her high and it keeps me sharp. Its enjoyable.

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What if I say no? They never stop. You're going to have people fucking with you the rest of your life and its gonna suck... then what? Where are we?