what's up guys, so i been out of the game for quite some time since i was in a 2 plus year relationship. we broke up 2 months ago and I'm ready to test myself in the market. I signed up for some sites such as okcupid and tinder. The other day i matched with this pretty hot chick, a solid 8.5/9 and i built some good rapport over okc messaging then texting. she calls while i was texting her (same day we matched) and we talk for an hour plus on the phone. looks like she has had bad experiences in her past relationships and she was asking me a lot of questions. so far so good tho. at the very end she asked me if i ever had a threesome (she met someone recently that wanted that or something). i told her no but when i was 21 (now I'm 28) i had one huge regret which was not partaking in a threesome with a legit HB9 and another 9. suddenly her responses got very short and unenthusiastic. shortly after she said she has to goto the gym and hung up. i couldn't even get a chance to set a formal date. we had been talking for an hour so I'm hoping it was just time to get off the phone - i probably should have been the one to end it. anyway I'm not sure what my next move should be. i was thinking lead-in by texting her tomorrow (i spoke with her yesterday) during the day and then follow up with a phone call after work. what do you guys recommend and what should i text her? i only plan on texting her 2-3 times then ignoring her till i call. thanks

You know, this really could have gone either way.

I bet she was looking/hoping for a simple 'no' answer here... but you elaborated and told her not only that you hadn't had one - but that you wanted one...

Now - there's really nothing wrong with what you did... some would say you're being direct - and I mean... she DID ask. I just don't think she liked your answer.

Maybe the fella who just cheated on her was into them. Who knows.

so obviously i have nothing to lose and I'm going to reach out again. but how do you think i should do this. i want to text her first then call. really unsure what to text. i don't want to do a plain how are you or whatever.
thanks again