| Well... Here's the deal:
I fell quite hard for a very good friend of mine. She was with a guy when we met, I was just starting to learn about game, failed to escalate properly and fell in the friendzone. In the meantime, they broke up and again I failed to escalate properly. Now she is with some dude who is clearly a rebound. He is very beta and quite far away from her usual bad boy type. Also things are not going very well since every other week she complains she is feeling down.
In the meantime, after she rejected me and got together with this guy (some 2 or 2,1/2 months ago) I severely reduced contact and she stared complaining I treat her diferently. When she complains I simply say it's all in her head, that I have a lot on my mind, or someting like that. Also, I started going out with other girls and frequently post pics with them to DHV. On the plus side, we have great chemestry. The (now fewer) times we hang out we always have a lot of fun and she is constantly saying I am the only person she can depend on and who always makes her laugh, no matter how bad she feels.
Now, here is the twist, due to several diferent factors I have become a much more atractive option. I inherited a house and some money (part of which went to a new set of wheels); changed my look and everyone agrees I look better now; my success with other girls made me more confident; and because this girl rejected me right on the same time I lost a promotion to a nepotist inbread wanker and got screwed over on a deal by someone I considered a friend I became a pretty badass renegade gaining that "screw the world" attitude. For exemple, I used to drop everything when she wanted to do something, now I constantly flake and stopped doing favors for her. When we went out I used to ask where she wanted to go, now I'm just like "I'm free this afternoon and want to go there/do that. Wanna come?" And this is not only towards her, it's a new attitude I have.
As a result, I would not say she is making moves on me. Hell, I don't even know for sure if she is intersted, but it sure feels like it. I used to invite her to go to the cinema quite often and she never agreed. When she rejected me she said she never went to the movies with me because "she usually only goes with boyfriends and didn't want me getting any ideas". Now she is the one constantly inviting me to the cinema. Another time she got really close to me and said "you smell nice. Are you using a new perfume?" I wear the same perfume almost since I met her. That same day she wanted to take a selfie with me and posted it on FB, something she had never done before although we've been friends for more than a year.
And last but not least, I'm seriously escalating kino. She used to complain if I put my arm on her shoulders or a hand on her waist, now very recently she complained of a cramp on her lower abdomen that left her with a sore muscle. I decided to play doctor and put my fingers there, she guided my hand and there I was feeling her up with my hand just inches away from her privates for quite some time. And no, before you ask, there was no chance of closing. We were in a public place. Earlier this week I took her to play pool, since she is inexperienced I took the oportunity and did some more kino, lots of touching to teach her how to place her hands, grabbing her by the waist, standing cheek to cheek and almost embracing as I placed her to line up a shot. Coming up from behind and standing with my parts against her arse as I corrected her stance. She was surprisingly cool with it all. Not only that she also started touching me quite more often, constantly touching my arm and chest when she talks to me.
So, do you guys think I have a shot? Does she want me to keep escalating? And how do I get rid of that sorry excuse of a BF?
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