Hey, Guys !

I am Frisco, 29, French, living between Paris, San Francisco and New York.

I have been into 4 big relationship, (2,2,2,3 years). In between a lot of girls.. around 60. But I have a lot to learn. But Right now I am in a crazy situation...

1 - I have a girl friend, but I don't see any futur for us.
2 - I play with about 4 girls on the side, I know they really want to be with me, and they very cute, and nice. But I don't have this strong connection with them, but make them believe we have one. I play.

3 - There is this girl, she lives very far. I live in Paris, she lives in Tokyo, we just spoke through SPAM, And I feel a crazy connection with her, at first we have been introduce by a common friend to work together, and we start to SPAM 4 hours the first time. The next time she was in trouble for her work, and I helped her out, because I have more experience than her in our jobs, in 1 hour job is fixed, and 2 hours of conversation. I always ended the calls. But the last call I told her, we should go out, when I come to Tokyo, she made a weird face, but said yes. It's weird, feels like yes and weird at the same time. I don't understand.

4 - If it can work, for me it's not a problem to live in Tokyo, I have a lot of friend, and my job allows me to live anywhere in the world.

5 - I can't stop thinking about her... It's mad.

I feel totally obsessed by her.

HELP my friend

Thank you

Where did you meet her?

And did you consider that she could move to you?

Also, don't rush into this too fast. How well do you know her? How many proper dates have you been on? Have you had sex with her yet?

C. Tingham

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Dude you have to chill.

You can't go chasing tail around because you had a 4 hour SPAM conversation with a girl. You have to believe in your ability to establish these crazy connections consistently. There are plenty of women in New York City along that you could connect with on a far deeper level. Trust me I know. I once thought the first true connection I felt was the end all be all; and then I made many more of the same just months later. You just have to believe in your ability to attract that to you. And when you're suffering from oneitis like this you are subconsciously telling yourself that you are incapable of attracting another women of high quality. This causes other high quality women not to be drawn to you - even the current girl you're talking to. You're pushing to hard and as a result she is pulling just as hard. Thats the nature of the game.

You have to chill for now bro. You're needy and in position to potentially comprise your integrity which will destroy all attraction. Let her come to you. You're integrity has to be more important to you than a woman. Its the only way they will respect you enough to love you back.

Don't contact her this time around. Give it a day or so and she'll contact you.

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