I just feel in a lot of interaction I get girls backs up. Have a look and see. Where you think I'm going wrong.

Me:If it isn't my favourite redhead
her: your favourite, you are cheeky
me: true you ain't earnt it yet
her: you earn respect, not a race sweet
me: hehehe tell me something about yourself
her: what is it you wish to know
me: ....shock me
her: (ignored my message but read it)

A lot of my text fizzle out like this, Feel like I get girls backs up.

Two things...

1) First - This is Tinder. What's your profile like? If you're a good looking guy, you'll need to put in a lot less effort than you will if you're not. What are your photos like? Post em up if you'd like an evaluation (or PM me if you don't want them public). Your profile quality is relevant to your question because........

2) That girl has 100 other guys messaging her. You're not standing out unless you're either really good looking, or you're funny as hell and engaging. What you're sending her here is not especially engaging. Tell me about yourself? That's so open ended... And you're making her work to impress someone who might be a complete douche (I'm sure you're not...) when she could simply go message one of the other 100 guys who aren't asking her silly questions. Be funny, be engaging (side note: I'd also clean up your grammar. Tough to read).

You're not contributing to the convo and she made you look stupid with the 'earn', 'earnt' typo.

You started okay but then you set the frame as a YOU vs HER when you mentioned she had to earn your attention which is arrogant and too cocky.

It's not a battle, it's a dance. Be flirty, funny and non needy

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Thanks guys. Love the feedback, I shall post pictures asap.