Hi Guys - looking for guidance

Met a HB8, got a number and then a first date last weds. Date went well, conversation flowed and we had a lot laughs. I ended up paying for someone else's bill by mistake and took a photo of it the next day and sent it to her sharing a joke. She rung me 10 minutes later saying she took it upon herself to ring the place and was going to get my money back (they tried chasing us on they way out so they knew it was a mistake) as she worked near by. We then arranged a second date this Weds too and spoke on the phone later that night (she actually wanted to do something Friday night 2 nights after our first date, but I was busy).

Yet she's gone quite cold over the weekend, I haven't really pushed but she wasn't very responsive to my last string of texts so I thought I wasn't going to push the boat, I just said good night as it was late. She then tried continuing the texts but I left it.

How do I approach this before the next date? I don't want to be needy and put her on a pedestal, but don't want to be too distant either, best way to go about this before Weds? Let her open the next interaction?

Thanks for any thoughts on this

Mayyyybe she was busy this weekend?

From what you wrote here she sounds down to see you again and even eager...

Don't read too much into things.

Shoot her a note tonight or tomorrow morning asking how her weekend was... and ask what her week looks like. Arrange a date based on her response.

Yeh I understand your point, 2nd date has already got the green light

Texting = Setting up a meet

People have lives, for whatever reason they cant be texting all the time

If your date is coming up cool, meet her up

If your date is coming up in 2 weeks , sure you can ping her every once in a while to see how she's doing, that way you still have that fire and anticipation built for the date.

But you dont have to text every day, unless you guys are already super close or getting closer and closer and feels natural lol

But at the beggining you dont have so much rapport built so just play it cool till the meet up

Dont overanalyze

Useually you'll have an intuation about how she feels about you, go based off that.

The real work should be done in person.
Then if you have alot of comfort and are getting along well you can text eachother alllll you want, you'll feel it

I suggest always assuming attraction until proven otherwise. At least after a couple of attempts befor deciding its off and moving on.

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