How will you react when a person suddenly comes in and interrupts your conversation? Sometimes your in a middle of a conversation then someone comes in and somewhat has a stronger frame than you are. There are many forms of interruptions during a conversation and I can't make a list of them but how will you react to each? Based on your experience in real life.


I will give different situations:

1. While talking to a newly meet woman and someone (man/woman) comes in and interrupts whether her friend(s) or some stranger(s)
2. While talking to a friend (man/woman) then someone (man/woman) suddenly comes in and interrupts whether a friend(s) or a stranger(s)

Are you just going to shrug it off and be silent?

or

Are you just going to smile and let her reengage later?

or

Are you just going to exit and walk away?

or

Are you going to tell the person (man/woman) to wait?


How will you react?

Let the person talk and expose himself for the idiot he is.

The absolute best way to handle it is to welcome him and give him all the attention and validation he wants. With time you give him less and less attention until someone gets bored and wants to leave, in which case you take the girl under your arm and walk away. In broad terms.

You can't ignore him, you can't let him steal the show either, and you can't try competing with him. Check this out: http://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI

Everyone has to live according to their own boundaries and convictions bro. Listen to the voice in your gut. Whenever you get a feeling in your gut it is a clear indicator that you MUST do something. And that something all depends upon where you are on your journey of character development.

I personally have very few experiences with people who have stronger frames, because i've built myself into who i am today. And i've always went through much pain and suffering to get here. But you have to be the judge of what you want in your life. I may be someone who doesn't mind if someone enters my conversation with another. I may enjoy getting an extra point of few and extra perspectives. But if you're the type of person who cares about something like that then you have to decide how YOU want to handle it. Don't live you life in accordance with someone else may find offense. Discover what offends you first.

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